sorry to dig this up right now, but i kinda feel addressed. I am one of those girls who loves to dress up and spend an hour in front of the mirror to create those intricate makeup lines around my eyes every time i go to any significant event, be it metal concert, somebody's birthday, fantasy faire, viking market. I just love sexy (bitchy as you call it) clothes in goth, punk, faerie styles, and if it's a show somehow related to vikings i dress up into medieval cloths and wear my viking gear and drinking horn. I just want to say, you really shouldn't generalize like that, there are also just people like me who actually just enjoy looking good. However, after a day at Ragnarök festial, i look like shit too, but then it doesn't matter anymore
well, defiance and I were speaking of something different from what you said. there's nothing bad in making ourselves pretty or staying 1 hour in front of the mirror.
sometimes it happens also to me if i have to go in some important places, but it all depends from the contest, i'm not gonna make up heavily and perfectly if i'm going to spend a whole day sweating under the sun , it won't be confortable, so i just don't make up. i'm enough wise (of i should say used after years of concerts) to know that at the end of the festival/concert i would look like abbath after two hours of stage
anyway we were mostly speaking about those girls who dress in a certain way because it's a fashion, 'cause it's cool to look evil sometimes, to go in certain places and behave in certain ways, like doing horns or headbanging, but they don't give a fuck of the music, they just do that because it's cool, they don't care about music, and if you speak to them you understand that they know at least 3 or 4 groups, and that's not your case!
maybe i'm just close-minded, i admit that.
but metal and everything that turns around it, concerts, festival, people, are such important things in my life that i hardly accept it
i think it all depends also from how a person is used.
i'm a simple person in look. i don't usually make up that often, basically only at night if i'm going out with friends or for some special occasions. i don't make up every morning when i wake up or when i go to work. i don't feel confortable to have the make up all the day on my face (and let's not speak of how delicate are my eyes, i can put on only some make-up brands). this is how i'm used (i'm not saying that i'm right and every other person that does the opposite is wrong) , i make up only if i have to do something important.
but that's not a matter of lazyness, this is my face, whether i like it or not, this is the face i was given and i have to live with that.
i don't like hide myself behind tons of make up in everyday's life, i want that my friends know my face. i know so many people that doesn't go out home without wearing make up, even if they are going to throw away the trash or to buy some bread. there are some friends of mine who i've never seen without make up for many years and the first time i saw their real face i tought "whaaaaat????
", i prefer that people thinks that i look nice with make the few times they see me with it on my face, then how i look strange without
this is me