Ok so I did done gone an did it, I read KK's book.
I honestly tried to read it with an open mind and that was difficult given all the stuff I had read over the last few months, but I still tried.
Firstly I will say that will I don't think KK has at any time recently been misquoted I do think that he has at times been selectively quoted and that's made some things sound worse than they are written, but pretty much everything I've read seems to be close to what he's said.
He plays the victim from the onset setting up his early life as an excuse for things he did in later life, whether that is intentional I don't really know but it happens. I'm not making light of him having a shit childhood but some people grow beyond it, I don't think he has because too easily falls into the blame game using it for future problems.
He comes across as the sort of guy who in a room full of people will call you a cunt, spend 10 minutes explaining why you are one and then finish the speech with "but don't get me wrong he really is a great person".
It is only a one sided story so obviously other band members don't get a say but he really lays the boots into Glenn and at times Rob, followed by talking about how great they are. He doesn't quite say he invented the leather look but he may as well because I think he firmly believes it.
He seems to make a hard and fast point that Rob's sexuality has nothing to do with the times he lays the boots in because he understands gay people having had gay friends since he was a teenager, but he mentions it so god damn often I'm not sure if he's trying to convince the reader he's okay with gay people or he's trying to convince himself.
His hindsight vision is 20/20 or so he thinks and the things he blames Glenn and Rob for, but mainly Glenn, dating back to the mid 80's is amazing. He claims he wrote his first resignation in 91, but didn't hand it in, because of Glenn, Rob and Management and mentions multiple times that he wishes he'd done it.
He also claims that the choice not to focus on the "Ripper" era and never talk about the albums was a mutual decision that he agreed with and still agrees with despite being friends with Tom.
Honestly there is so much playing the victim whilst at the same time claiming he was responsible for everything that it is at times difficult to read. However the last chapter (or two) where he talks about the resignation (which he admits was rude enough to never see him invited back) feels like it was written at a different time to the rest of the book. It feels a lot more angry, pissed off, and like he's trying to get retribution for everything. (Interestingly he claims Retribution was a stupid name for a metal album because it says the wrong thing, but he got overruled). It was an extremely childish way to end the book I felt.
There is a lot more to it that just what I have written but when the guy who we've all see in the press recently ends his first chapter like this:
Whether I was born with this trait of grinning and bearing it or not, that’s exactly how I’d navigate difficult situations thereafter. As hard as I tried, I was never a nasty person, or someone who relished confrontation and head games.
Then follows it up with:
For me the path of least resistance was the most attractive—and if that meant sabotaging or disadvantaging myself, then so be it.
you could be excused for thinking it's two different people.
But on the whole KK sounds like a really decent guy and I respect him totally for what he's done all these years.