Dude, every black metal band ever betrayed black metal. Fucking trendwhores.Man fuck those Black Sabbath sellouts, they betrayed blues rock.
Even though i got into metal 4-5 years ago, this applies to me because I didn't know shit about the internet. And yeah, I went through all the gateway bands; Metallica, Pantera, Megadeth, Slayer, Rage Against The Machine, Dragonforce, etc, before digging into more underground stuff. And yes, I know lots of people who never listened to the gateway bands and just blew right past them with the internet.Most people who learn what metal they should like on the internet tend to skip gateway bands,aka those who got into it the last 4-5 years. Personally i find it hard to believe that someone can go from not listening to metal to listening to Burzum in 24 hours. Me i didn't have any internet to learn such stuff in back in the mid nineties so i listened to many bands that doesn't have much kvlt cred,and still do.
I agree the term is stupid (I didn't think of it) but look at it, I got into extreme metal from CoF aswell (what a coincidence eh?). I only didn't follow a gay-transvestite purple like fairytale taste like you did but I was actually trying to find good bands.

I don't necessarily agree, but the latter half of that post is hilarious.
No."Gateway bands" are generally very melodic and punky, and have memorable choruses. From what I've heard anyway.
I think you were thinking of pop-metal, or maybe glam. See, "gateway" just means that the band is one of the most famous and successful in the genre and so the first band in that genre people listen to would be that band; Metallica are/were a gateway thrash band, same for Slayer. In Flames are a gateway band for melodic death metal. I would argue that Emperor is something of a gateway band for black metal. Does that make Emperor's music melodic, catchy, punky, simplistic, or lacking in subtlety? No, it doesn't, because that has nothing to do with being a gateway band.