cookiecutter
Proceed to Ultraslamming
Ok. Stop being attracted to a woman for a day. Don't worry, you can switch back.Also, it is possible to stop/start being attracted to members of the opposite sex. Where did you get that idea? Maybe not in 100% of cases, but in many.
I got the idea that you couldn't from the fact that I can't and the fact that no one else ever seems to.
Dodens already responded to this but I'll add my two cents.I think "belief" seems much less serious to those who don't participate in it or share it with others. When people become imbued with a specific form of faith or belief and adopt its tenets and structure it becomes unimaginably difficult to completely shift worldviews. In my opinion, it's not much different than being gay. A person is ushered into the world and given a multitude of belief systems to choose from, including no belief system at all; when one presents itself that said person identifies with (based on his or her innate personal tendencies), that becomes his or her method of faith.
It's very similar to a human being coming into the world and being allowed to freely choose his or her sexual orientation (based on his or her own innate personal tendencies).
I think you're completely wrong. I'm not going to argue with the point that beliefs can be extremely powerful and that not having them can seem completely incomprehensible. Obviously this is true when people are still religious or communist or believe in alien abductions despite these things being obviously false from scientific/skeptical worldview. However to compare that to sexual orientation is absurd. If suddenly a communist state turned out really great (not going to happen but for argument's sake) you might reconsider your position. I use communism as an example because historically it's been one of those beliefs that causes extreme devotion in it's followers and extreme antagonism in its detractors. If an alien ship was spotted by a reputable source you might start believing too.
Now imagine if it turned out that your family might shun you for liking girls (something that happens to gay people all the time). If you were to make a ration choice you would stop liking girls. There's plenty of dudes in the world to like and you love your family and don't want them to shun you. Could you do that? I know I couldn't no matter how much I wanted to.