Dak
mentat
I think the more honest answer is that I just don't care. I don't consider myself a hyper- or even moderately "masculine" person, and I don't think my life is diminished because of that.
Well how many of us think we are really missing out on something that isn't socially and/or economically relevant to our positions in life? Of course even I would push back on the sort of "bro" caricatures of masculinity which pervade the strawmen of Jezebel pieces. I would argue there are archetypes of masculinity which certain situations require. A Mad Max world requires a Conan the Barbarian and Rambo if you will allow me to mix 80s references. At a different end of the spectrum we have a Holmes in Victorian England. There are rough and there are polished masculine figures, which correspond to the roughness or the polished nature of the times. The problem encountered today is that things are both and neither rough or/nor polished.
Maybe it's because of the community I live in, but I'm not sure I believe that masculinity is something that needs to persist in order for the human species to survive.
Since rough masculinity has been with the species since the beginning (and with hominids to some degree before that), is a test-tube derived androgynous asexual hominid still the human species? Will such a species have any reason or drive to perpetuate? What's the reason to test tube a baby if there's not even any interest in sexual pleasure? These aren't hyperbolic questions. Even now, the (or nearly the) most emasculated and/or androgynous culture faces a startling demographic cliff.
http://www.weeklystandard.com/the-demographic-cliff/article/690756
If Japan’s fertility rate were to somehow rebound to replacement level, its demographic structure is already so dilapidated that the country would lose 30 percent of its population by 2100. If Japan’s fertility rate stays where it is now? Then by 2100 the country will have lost more than half of its current population.
I don't think this is simply "hurrdurr, gotta be MOAR MANLY". This is simply, across the entire species, the unwinding of the nihilism Nietzsche warned about yet only faintly in comparison to the true danger. His solution was the Ubermensch, but without Transcendence there is no Why as an engine for the Ubermensch.
It may be the solution is in barbarism, and radical Islam is the specie's vehicle of salvation. How ironically sad.
