Norsemaiden said:
I think perhaps it may have been intended that I should have laughed self-deprecatingly at the original post, rather than taking issue with it. But then again, that would be patronising.
Why the need for either response (self-deprecation/defensiveness)? Wouldnt simple reflection upon my intent and criticisms be enough?
Norsemaiden said:
Justin S, I can see that you don't really want to discuss at all - only to put down whatever I say. So your objections can be seen in light of this.
I told you want I wish to discuss, and what I will generally avoid. I very much want to engage honestly with other people- this is why I post here.
This thread, and my general humor/frustration as of late, is due to the profound lack of discourse on this board despite many efforts (and the pretense of its title). I am lashing out with absurdity because Ive lost patience reading it here everyday. The problem with this format of communication is that there is no accountability- tomorrow a new incarnation of the same flawed ideas and subject matter will appear regardless of the response and evaluation the first time. There is never a progression or understanding. If this is this case, we are left with a collection of hasty and redundant "opinions", and nothing more.
Norsemaiden said:
I'm sure I must have unintentionally offended you. For this I apologise. (That means you can stop blatently trying to offend me now in revenge.)
I cant say I feel offended by you, but I find it unacceptable to have someone put words in my mouth and represent my ideas incorrectly. You jumped to far reaching conclusions so hastily.
Norsemaiden, I dont desire to attack you on a "emotional" or total level (to speak out against what I dont know- you outside this forum), but to drive home how sternly critical I am of your thinking, as you represent it here. I took shots because I resent deflection and denial of essential matters.
And if I am truly honest, I must admit that I really pick up on seemingly minute or "simply" aesthetic details. For example, I think your screen name is ridiculous and obscene. The same goes for most posters here (what displays of arrogance!). I try not to let annoyances like this greatly affect discourse due to my concern for openness and civility, but It would be dishonest for me to claim I disassociate such critical thoughts from an essential understanding (while at the same time not extrapolating too much).