i just read the whole thread once more trying to identify where exactly things have started going downhill. as much as i would like to start posting ontopic replies, this is going to prove a bit tricky until i understand
what the topic currently is. i'm taking this chance to list some of the main issues brought up by the discussion so far, in order to better clarify to myself - and hopefully others - where we are and where we can go from here.
1.
threads about in flames. the reason they are so criticized around here has nothing to do with in flames being a different band than dark tranquillity, in flames (maybe) getting commercial, or the subject being generally off topic. the actual point is that new in flames, their music, their latest record and a possible nu-metal or otherwise mainstream decay of the band have been discussed before about a hundred of times.
this poses somewhat of a problem when it comes to accepting new users that - as their first action coming here - start a new thread about this overly-beaten subject. part of this problem is that some (admittedly rather vague, of late) principles regarding thread consolidation would require that when a lot of threads discussing the exact same subject come up in a short period of time they get merged together in
one thread on the subject, so that (among other reasons) the first page of the forum is not clogged up with a dozen similar titles, pushing back and sending to oblivion threads on different topics. another side of the issue is that 90% of the regulars around here have already voiced their opinion on r2r and in flames more than once, and they would likely just desert the thread because they'd lack the motivation to repeat the same opinions all over again.
as everyone can easily see i almost never merge threads anymore, especially when there have been more than a couple of replies on them. this is for the twofold reason that (a) there is not enough activity around here to justify such draconian measure when it's obvious that the thread starters are just unaware of their threads redundancy; (b) it's been a while since
real troublemakers have visited this place and i sort of trust everybody who posts here to have some standards in their behaviour, so that the occasional "stray thread" won't become an annoyance anyway. if i feel people are crossing the line - i say to myself - i can always close it as a means to communicate the rather elaborate concept of "baf!".
it is undeniable that, even in the circumstances described above, there is a tendency to greet a newbie posting about in flames with a thinly veiled "fuck you". however, this is not to be seen as mortal offense that should be washed away by slaughtering the offender's family with a rusty pickaxe. the odd "oh, no, not that again! bugger off!" is part of some users' personality: one can be more or less inclined to agree or participate, but - in my opinion - it shouldn't be taken seriously at all. in fact, after the first air-raid of benevolent flames, even salamurhaaja got back to replying in a very civilized, and shall i say docile way as soon as the discussion went down the kmfdmkfmdkfmdkfmkdmfdfkmdkkdwhatstheirface way.
it can happen that when walking up to a company of friends and saying something that inadvertently upsets them, some might get a little more vocal about it while other just keep quiet waiting, as it were, for the other shoe to drop. this is because of each individual's character and it usually gets solved by explaining each other.
i think we should stop debating the validity of this thread in the light of its original being about in flames. now it's not, and nobody cares enough to want it to get back to the original topic. if inflames626 is interested in knowing what others here think about r2r he just has to ask and i will dig for older threads on the subject myself and provide him with the link. that's all there is to it.
2.
avatars. to make it - hopefully - clear once and for all: many communities online and chat programs have been sort of invaded in the past couple of years by users who are on average much younger and much less experienced than those who were previously the "typical" forum or messenger dwellers. partly because of their age, they are also quite close to popular music and juvenile lingo. this goes far beyond the simple typing "u" instead of "you" or "k" instead of "ok", and it branches off in a thousand different directions depending on the sub-culture of choice. in particular, those who are taken by a black metal frenzy (either serious or pretend black metal, or so i gather), kindly assisted by some of their musical mentors, devised a whole range of words (and their distortion) to signify that they belong to a rather exclusive and - of course - totally meaningful group. they actually have some funny antics such as claiming that all that is entertainment and happiness is wrong and stuff. needless to say, these people have become the object of some intense mockery on the part of casual black metal listeners, non-black metal listeners, and actual black metal listeners who are just in for the music but don't give a shit about the image. so it has become rather popular on boards online to put up - either occasionally or always, it depends - a fake "black metal fanboy" persona to humour those who are really way into it. aside from more psychological connotations of this phenomenon, it's safe to say that both taking picture of oneself with a stupid but intense expression, or corpse-paint, and using distorted words like tr00 and grim and l33t,
are all only examples in irony. there is nothing serious about it. everyone is allowed not to appreciate this kind of humour but
assuming that it is for real is quite simply false. there's next to no room for opinions and their many justifications here: we can't
presume too much about salmy's avatar or choice of words, and if there is one thing that the cover (the avatar) in his case betrays is the fact that he likes to poke fun at black metal fanboyism.
so please, whatever anyone wants to say about his avatar, manners, opinions, just make sure that you do that by taking into consideration the aforementioned
facts, otherwise you're not informed enough to express an opinion that has any validity, regardless of it being favourable or not.
3.
getting upset because of critics to dark tranquillity. i sort of doubt that anyone actually would, or that they have. i think the second round of flames (starting from post #70-something) was not motivated by that, but anyway...
that's just stupid. people should be able to come here and criticize as much as they want. and it's not even like inflames626 came here and said they suck and are nu-metal and should be killed and thrown into the sea. he said they haven't been very original after projector. to be honest, i kind of agree, projector was certainly their most original and creative attempt since skydancer. my opinion? yes. unsupported by facts? possibly. but i think the whole facts vs. opinion diatribe should subside around here: everyone's going on about other people being highly subjective while, well,
we are so informed and down to earth. honestly, this is going nowhere. in the end there will be a point where the interpretation of certain facts is of the essence to tip the balance in favour of one opinion or the other. and it will be left to everyone of us to decide who brought up the most convincing arguments (which are a product of logic, i.e., not a mere sequence of sterile facts, and you first have to agree on the logic underneath to accept the whole package).
i, for one, thought that inflames626' argument according to which most songs on the mind's i have the same starting riffs (or whatever, i'm not a musician at all so don't flood me with words i'm not going to understand
) was pretty solid. why hasn't anyone tried to think of a rebuttal to that instead of, say, suggesting he should listen to tmi more? this is what i think separates an argument apart from just any comeback: you add your thoughts trying to "prove" a point. granted, it won't be a mathematician's or a laywer's "proof", but it'd be food for thought and at least an attempt at a debate.
you see, when i discuss some topics with my friends in real life i hardly ever have to resort to
asking for evidence. i mean, if there were easy evidence available you'd figure we'd have gotten to it by now.
no, we are clearly discussing uncertain topics which are more or less subject to opinion. sometimes one can find the other's reasoning convincing, other times this won't happen. there is reference to facts, but they're not used to hit each other on the head like with a rubber yak. try to use similar criteria here, it's gonna get us farther then questioning the other guy's sources over and over or looking like arrogant little pricks by praising our own grasp of all mundane things.
4.
thread ownership. this part i think should be settled if we just stopped misusing the word "ownership". i agree that this thread is inflames626's own creation and it would be nice and happy if he could finally talk about what he wants (although i'm not sure what that is at the moment) with those who want to discuss with him. he can also
ask the others to refrain from posting, and we already covered the part about the protection of his actual messages.
this is, however, not the content of the right of ownership over property, at least not applied to the whole thread. ownership would mean people are
forbidden to interfere (in the thread, again), whereas they're not. ownership would mean if this thread is taken away from inflames626 (by me, for instance), then he would have the right to either have it back or be refunded, whereas he doesn't. and so on. so please let's forget ownership, trespass, battery, theft, libel and slander. be ambitious and go for genocide.