Yes, Staind...
I am actually not putting them down as musicians...I mean they're a decent tight band and all, it's just the music...to me it's based on what I call "faked anxiety" which is a syndrome most of these NU metal bands suffer from. There's no conviction in the music or the way it's performed. I just hear the same droning vocal lines, same arrangements, same lyrics...I'm not gonna say "This is how it is!", because it's a free world, but for me bands like Staind means absolutely nothing, total "run of the mill" type of band.
I've never boasted about Opeth as musicians, I only boast about the music haha. I mean, in comparison to many of these Nu metal musicians I can barely play my instrument, and I'm a fukkin novice when it comes to singing. I don't compare skills, it's fukking not interesting to me anymore. I want to hear the nerve, the feeling, the meaning with a song I hear. If I don't get that I dismiss it. There are so many bands out there that they have to give me something more than just a "good performance" or execution of their songs...who gives a fuck about that anymore? I want songs that breaks my world, even the lousiest player can have a heart burning so intense for the music that he or she can put all the Malmsteens and Vai's out there to shame.
Still, coming from a metal past, I have a weak spot for technical arrangements and stuff like that, but it doesn't last. I still think "A day in the life" by the Beatles is the best song ever written.
Music for me is about passion, and if it hasn't got the passion there's nothing, nothing else in it for me.
I admit that saying I "hate" a band might be crossing a line...it's just a word that is so common these days.
Mike