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uh? of course there is a need, have you not read what he has done?

of course i've read what he's "done"

but have any of you tried ringing him or dropping him a message? no!

he's just moved house and doesn't have the internet freely available there....being somewhat agoraphobic too getting out the house to go use it somewhere else would be a bit of a PITA for him.

im not defending what he's done if that genuinely is the case, just think about it logically!
 
of course i've read what he's "done"

but have any of you tried ringing him or dropping him a message? no!

he's just moved house and doesn't have the internet freely available there....being somewhat agoraphobic too getting out the house to go use it somewhere else would be a bit of a PITA for him.

im not defending what he's done if that genuinely is the case, just think about it logically!

Drew swears at/about people, it's what he does :heh:

On the other hand, Gareth's had my money for 5 months (give or take a few days). In the circumstances I think some swearing could well be appropriate.
 
of course i've read what he's "done"

but have any of you tried ringing him or dropping him a message? no!

he's just moved house and doesn't have the internet freely available there....being somewhat agoraphobic too getting out the house to go use it somewhere else would be a bit of a PITA for him.

im not defending what he's done if that genuinely is the case, just think about it logically!

Still, spending the money before delivering the goods and then telling the person to fuck off is IMO a huge dick move.
 
Before you get to the argument of whether there is any need for it, first establish whether the attitude achieves anything whatsoever.................... which of course it doesn't.

Personally I think if someone does something that is out of character then you give them the benefit of the doubt. Shit happens. Have a fucking cry and send the script to Neighbours drama queens.
 
of course i've read what he's "done"

but have any of you tried ringing him or dropping him a message? no!

he's just moved house and doesn't have the internet freely available there....being somewhat agoraphobic too getting out the house to go use it somewhere else would be a bit of a PITA for him.

im not defending what he's done if that genuinely is the case, just think about it logically!

You really defending him? This transaction happened months ago, saying he moved house is not an excuse to not send something that has been payed for months ago? And I would try messaging him but he deleted me from facebook as he did to many guys here it seems. Seriously, how can you defend him? He's a backstabbing scum, sorry it hurts your feelings
 
You really defending him? This transaction happened months ago, saying he moved house is not an excuse to not send something that has been payed for months ago? And I would try messaging him but he deleted me from facebook as he did to many guys here it seems. Seriously, how can you defend him? He's a backstabbing scum, sorry it hurts your feelings

and what part of "i'm not defending him if that genuinely is the case" didnt you understand?

first your hurped
 
Dan you fucking need to chill man, I'm sad to say this cause I like you and all but I think you're having a somewhat aggressive immature attitude lately. Quite a few of you guys do actually, this is none of your business, it's between John and him and whatever you guys answered should have been helpful to John instead of just bashing Gareth pointlessly (i.e. being cunts without helping anybody in any way). He will pay him back when he's got money, end of the line.

Sucks that he's not paying back for now, but he's in very busy times and will do it eventually. As much as I am sure he will, I gotta be honest, Gareth is not one I would lend money too, but that's not really the point anymore, is it? Anyway, I really hope you get payed the soonest possible, good luck with that!
 
Dan you fucking need to chill man, I'm sad to say this cause I like you and all but I think you're having a somewhat aggressive immature attitude lately. Quite a few of you guys do actually, this is none of your business, it's between John and him and whatever you guys answered should have been helpful to John instead of just bashing Gareth pointlessly (i.e. being cunts without helping anybody in any way). He will pay him back when he's got money, end of the line.

Sucks that he's not paying back for now, but he's in very busy times and will do it eventually. As much as I am sure he will, I gotta be honest, Gareth is not one I would lend money too, but that's not really the point anymore, is it? Anyway, I really hope you get payed the soonest possible, good luck with that!

I can appreciate you being caring and nice about this, but that attitude is exactly why these things happen. Furthermore being lackadaisical about shit and spending someone else's money is fucked and he deserves whatever he gets from it.

I am sorry, but if I bought a cab from you and you spent my money and didn't send me the cab and 5 months went by, then you would have much worse to look forward to than a few people saying mean shit about you. Just saying basically that that money goes a long way and to have it pretty much stolen or taken and treated as a interest free loan is bullshit. Thats bills, food, meds, medical bills, all of that shit.
 
I can appreciate you being caring and nice about this, but that attitude is exactly why these things happen. Furthermore being lackadaisical about shit and spending someone else's money is fucked and he deserves whatever he gets from it.

I am sorry, but if I bought a cab from you and you spent my money and didn't send me the cab and 5 months went by, then you would have much worse to look forward to than a few people saying mean shit about you. Just saying basically that that money goes a long way and to have it pretty much stolen or taken and treated as a interest free loan is bullshit. Thats bills, food, meds, medical bills, all of that shit.

Seriously - saying "he'll pay him back when he gets the money - end of line" implies that John isn't completely 100% in the right to be nagging the piss out of him, which I believe he is. It was an immature, blatantly selfish, irresponsible move - end of line.
 
I can appreciate you being caring and nice about this, but that attitude is exactly why these things happen. Furthermore being lackadaisical about shit and spending someone else's money is fucked and he deserves whatever he gets from it.

I am sorry, but if I bought a cab from you and you spent my money and didn't send me the cab and 5 months went by, then you would have much worse to look forward to than a few people saying mean shit about you. Just saying basically that that money goes a long way and to have it pretty much stolen or taken and treated as a interest free loan is bullshit. Thats bills, food, meds, medical bills, all of that shit.

Yeah sure, but would you care about others saying shit about the other guy? He needed to get in touch with Gareth, did, things aren't sorted out but we can't do anything else about it. This is where the line ends. Who cares what anybody thinks? It won't change anything. Support could be cool, but bitching is kind of the worse thing to do at this point...
 
Well this is a public forum.......Maybe we should have a "Just mentioning, but mind your own business" subforum so people dont respond?

Joking by the way.
 
The bit about him being an "unpredictable drug addict" was definitely not cool.
Come on guys, you're better than that to say slanderous stuff like that
 
I wasn't just slinging poop. I really think the op should report Gareth to the law and take him to court. It was honest advice, it is what I would do if in his shoes.

I was also advocating to not get in a situation that would lead to violence, ie going over to his place and getting in his face on the street. Because based on his statements on this board he uses lots of drugs and makes completely incoherent statements. Hence a unpredictable drug addict.

That being said there is no need to call Gareth names or insult his mother or other nonsense.
 
^Right, because he's expressed interest in experimenting with drugs, has discussed his marijuana use, and goes on crazy ramblings about spirituality he must be an "unpredictable drug addict".
Very sound logic:rolleyes:
Can you provide cold, hard proof of him being addicted to any drug/s?
 
^Right, because he's expressed interest in experimenting with drugs, has discussed his marijuana use, and goes on crazy ramblings about spirituality he must be an "unpredictable drug addict".
Very sound logic:rolleyes:
Can you provide cold, hard proof of him being addicted to any drug/s?

I haven't checked in awhile but I had him as a contact on MSN and I would chat with him for about a 2 to 3 month period, this was about a year ago. Randomly sometimes I would get random ass messages that had no coherence what so ever and when I would say something like "what?" he would take 5 minutes to respond to explain something that made sense somewhat but had no relation to the jibberish he blurted out earlier. This was about the same time he went from respectable cool headed member to attacking members and getting banned by MetalAges and going off on "spiritual" mumbo jumbo.

really havne't talked to him since, his posts on here since then have been still questionable at best.