Girlfriend/Roommate Issue

[divine_torture]

I appreciate the living suggestions guys; we're still working it out. We're just uncomfortable with possibly living together. Her parents are very against her moving in with me.

I wonder if I'm just being stubborn about this; is it unreasonable to expect our friends to take sides in the matter? I honestly feel that my girlfriend deserves a bit of recognition for what she's going through. I could just be biased in this whole thing, but I've been incredibly frustrated about this whole thing since it happened. I feel that something unjustified was done to my girlfriend but no one sees that.

You're not being stubborn. People often times just don't care. It's sad really...

As for the moving in with you: It's not easy. Especially if you've not been together long. My gf and I have lived together almost two years, and it's hell sometimes. We both have 'manic thoughts of perverse mutilation' (I lol'd) on some days. You see each other ALL the fucking time. It takes a lot of work to live together and make it.

Have you made an honest effort to talk to any of these people outside of a party/social gathering situation?

 

[Einherjar86]

Yeah, I've tried. People admit to me that it's a shitty situation, but no one wants to go any further than that.

Whatever, she's moving out and we have to deal with it. We have a few options, so we just have to figure it out. I appreciate everyone's comments and advice, I needed some outsider opinions.