To throw my two cents in...Don't get those words (or ANY words/letters) tattooed on your hands. I think you need to consider the ramifications of forever having those where it's nearly impossible to cover them up. I mean, sure you can wear gloves to work, but then you'd be the weird Michael Jackson glove wearing person.
If you're concerned about being seen as a copycat, bear this in mind: 'HATE' on your fingers is pretty damned cliche. However, the odds are that no tattoo you get will be the only one ever to exist like that.
On to my next point...consider also that (hopefully) you will not always be filled with hatred or rage or rebellion, and that could be a source of regret. Here's an idea, get a tattoo somewhere it can be covered up of either the word "Perseverance" or a symbolic interpretation of it.
And lastly, tattoos on fingers are notorious for ending up shitty looking years down the road. So you will likely end up really, oddly enough, hating your blotchy, hard-to-read tattoo that just reminds you of a crappy time in your life.
Not trying to say to never get a tattoo, I love tattoos, but I'm saying to put a little more thought into it...long term.