i wonder how many people have formed a bad opinion of me because of that thread?

I never thought you were an asshole, I was just really confused and hurt, after I got over that, from the help of my freinds here helping me realize a few things. I was hurt by everyone on the Anathema forum accusing me of talking shit behind your back, which wasnt the case, and failing to see why i made the thread in the first place. Thus blowing things way out of proportion. Thank you for putting things to rest, and I hope you recieved my extended apology email that I mailed you last nite. And I also appreciate you posting here as well, thanks man.