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"Free love" isn't the extent of sexual consciousness post-World War II, and I don't think it's accurate to chalk it up to that.

I think we also need to specify what Peterson is arguing for. He wants all single men to have partners. Enforcing monogamy doesn't mean outlawing polygamy; he means that all single men should have wives. This translates into some kind of regulation that forces women to marry single men. In other words, both men and women should have one partner; but it's more important that men have partners (according to Peterson), and women should be forced to accommodate this. It's proto-Handmaid's Tale, but with quasi-religious fundamentalism masquerading as some kind of weird mytho-philosophy.

This is where I think Peterson puts his foot in his mouth. Any modern opposition to enforced monogamy doesn't have to do with free love; it has to do with the women's movement and advancement of women's rights since the late-nineteenth and early-twentieth centuries. The whole concept of enforced monogamy should be an absurd declaration.

Nowhere in that article is there a quote specifying enforced monogamy meaning forced marriages. Furthermore:
https://jordanbpeterson.com/uncategorized/on-the-new-york-times-and-enforced-monogamy/

My motivated critics couldn’t contain their joyful glee this week at discovering my hypothetical support for a Handmaid’s Tale-type patriarchal social structure as (let’s say) hinted at in Nellie Bowles’ New York Times article presenting her take on my ideas.

It’s been a truism among anthropologists and biologically-oriented psychologists for decades that all human societies face two primary tasks: regulation of female reproduction (so the babies don’t die, you see) and male aggression (so that everyone doesn’t die). The social enforcement of monogamy happens to be an effective means of addressing both issues, as most societies have come to realize (pair-bonded marriages constituting, as they do, a human universal (see the list of human universals here, derived from Donald Brown’s book by that name).

Here’s something intelligent about the issue, written by antiquark2 on reddit (after the NYT piece appeared and produced its tempest in a tea pot): “Peterson is using well-established anthropological language here: “enforced monogamy” does not mean government-enforced monogamy. “Enforced monogamy” means socially-promoted, culturally-inculcated monogamy, as opposed to genetic monogamy – evolutionarily-dictated monogamy, which does exist in some species (but does not exist in humans). This distinction has been present in anthropological and scientific literature for decades.”

He also includes some research links on the subject.
 
Nowhere in that article is there a quote specifying enforced monogamy meaning forced marriages. Furthermore.

I know, that's always the point, isn't it? He doesn't use the phrase "forced marriage" so he can't be talking about it.

"Enforced monogamy" isn't "well-established anthropological language." It's telling that the source for this claim is fucking reddit. Just do a search for the phrase "enforced monogamy." When anthropologists write about it, they often use it to refer to socially-regulated marriage. Peterson cherry-picks three or so sources. That doesn't constitute "well-established language."

It's fine if Peterson means it in the way he claims, but this is just another example of him having, at best, complete disregard for the language he uses--at worst, he's being willfully dishonest.
 
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I know, that's always the point, isn't it? He doesn't use the phrase "forced marriage" so he can't be talking about it.

"Enforced monogamy" isn't "well-established anthropological language." It's telling that the source for this claim is fucking reddit. Just do a search for the phrase "enforced monogamy." When anthropologists write about it, they often use it to refer to socially-regulated marriage. Peterson cherry-picks three or so sources. That doesn't constitute "well-established language."

It's fine if Peterson means it in the way he claims, but this is just another example of him having, at best, complete disregard for the language he uses--at worst, he's being willfully dishonest.

The source is reddit? Are you talking about this: https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanPete...enforced_monogamy_defined_for_us_by_the_ncbi/ ?

The article in question here was written by a Harvard EvoBio professor and has been cited 243 times. I don't know the degree to which the term "enforced monogamy" is an actual term within anthropology etc., or if it is, the degree to which it describes what Peterson claims he meant. I've found use of the term in EvoBio in relation to genetic monogamy with non-humans. In most of these articles, the abstract starts off with some sort of mention of the following:

An evolutionary conflict often exists between the sexes in regard to female mating patterns. Females can benefit from polyandry, whereas males mating with polyandrous females lose reproductive opportunities because of sperm competition. Where this conflict occurs, the evolution of mechanisms whereby males can control female remating, often at a fitness cost to the female, are expected to evolve. The fitness cost to the female will be increased in systems where a few high status males monopolise mating opportunities and thus have limited sperm supplies.

Reproduction has classically been viewed as a predominantly cooperative process. However, over the last 20 years this concept has steadily yielded ground to one of continual conflict in which the interests of the sexes are typically discordant. Within this framework, males and females are seen to be locked into a perpetual arms race, each adaptation by one sex promoting the evolution of countermeasures in the other sex. However, under strict genetic monogamy, the interests of the sexes become congruent, and hence antagonistic coevolution does not occur.

I also found this from 1914:

The article reports that monogamy will be enforced in the U.S. as the law of the land. The U.S. government considers bigamy a crime and is allegedly determined to enforce the law on monogamy. The state of Utah is the object of lesson as its statehood was made conditional on its acceptance and enforcement of the law. The realization of the danger of polygamy allegedly prompted Senator Joseph E. Randell to propose an amendment to the U.S. Constitution in relation to divorce and the right to remarry.

Unfortunately we don't have any anthropologists lurking here that I know of who could shed more light on the matter, and otherwise our reading still can run into this other problem:

While I think that vitriol Peterson gets is outsized for any particular thing he says, that comes with the territory of fame with people the Cathedral despises or ignores. If I wanted to be critical here of where he might be going outside of his area of expertise, I think Peterson might suffer to some degree from "the Autodidact's Curse". From Bryan Caplan: https://flightfromperfection.com/caplan-on-audodidacts-curse.html

For me, what I do is so interdisciplinary so I’m always worried about this autodidact’s curse, where you’ve read a ton of stuff but you still haven’t actually talked to anyone who knows what’s going on. This is one of the things that I try to do to deal with especially the wisdom of a field. Oftentimes there’s wisdom in a field, where it’s known to people who have thought about it for a long time, but they don’t write it down.

Of course, that’s very hard for the autodidact to find out. “What is the wisdom in your field that you don’t write down?” This is where I try to reach out to people. Generally, I would say I get about a 15 percent response rate for the people saying they’ll at least read something, so I feel like it does give me some good quality control.

Of course a more spergish, more experienced, popular writer like Caplan is probably a bit more cautious with this sort of thing than Peterson seems to be. Peterson likes to say he is very careful with his words, which is true but not enough in the public eye. A clinical psychologist has to be very particular about his/her words at all times for how they might be interpreted by the client. This is easier in a clinical setting than in a broad setting, because the potential interpretations multiply nearly infinitely in a public capacity. Secondly, speaking on matters outside the discipline of psychology or outside the revealed particulars of a client's life is to go well outside of a clinical psychologist's "lane", which is language I've used before. Peterson could likely say that all his personal work on investigating mythos didn't leave him any authors to contact - but he could have read relatively contemporary expositions and contacted those authors for field knowledge.

What Peterson and Trump are doing, in different ways and on different subjects, is further revealing the religious-like nature of liberals and conservatives. We can't get any critique from fans and the critiques from the Never crowd doesn't even make it to the level of accuracy required for a strawman half the time.
 
Perfect.

The reaction to Peterson's language is widespread--from left-wingers who vehemently disagree, and I wouldn't be surprised if plenty of his loyal supporters are disappointed to learn the real meaning of the phrase.

Here's the issue: clearly many people are misunderstanding the phrase, if indeed Peterson is invoking this "anthropological" concept. There's no reason why anyone outside of anthropology (or evolutionary biology, for that matter) would understand the nuances of a phrase like "enforced monogamy." And given the context of Peterson's remarks, it's completely rational to assume he was talking about enforced marriage.

The fact that Peterson didn't bother to define his terms suggests (to me) that he anticipated the misinterpretation so that he could leap at the chance to point out the left's hypocrisy. But it's not hypocrisy; it's a legitimate reaction to suggestive language. He either has no grasp of discourse beyond his discipline, or he's intentionally sabotaging it.
 
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Perfect.

The reaction to Peterson's language is widespread--from left-wingers who vehemently disagree, and I wouldn't be surprised if plenty of his loyal supporters are disappointed to learn the real meaning of the phrase.

Here's the issue: clearly many people are misunderstanding the phrase, if indeed Peterson is invoking this "anthropological" concept. There's no reason why anyone outside of anthropology (or evolutionary biology, for that matter) would understand the nuances of a phrase like "enforced monogamy." And given the context of Peterson's remarks, it's completely rational to assume he was talking about enforced marriage.

The fact that Peterson didn't bother to define his terms suggests (to me) that he anticipated the misinterpretation so that he could leap at the chance to point out the left's hypocrisy. But it's not hypocrisy; it's a legitimate reaction to suggestive language. He either has no grasp of discourse beyond his discipline, or he's intentionally sabotaging it.

I'm not sure the degree to which angry incels are in his readership; they probably would benefit from the "clean up your room" talk. If they are missing that part, and only listening to what they think they like, they probably would be upset to learn the meaning isn't HandMaiden's tale redux.

I don't see any reason though to assume that he meant forced marriage. The snide potshots were sprinkled all throughout that NYT piece, so the veracity and completeness of the reporting is in question. I think you're projecting on that issue in tandem with the reporter. It is certainly plausible he agreed to this interview (and has agreed to at least a couple of others I can think of) because he anticipated the breathless taking out of context of very specific sorts of language, whether the language accurately refers to strict, accurate academic jargon or not. "Normative monogamous marriage" or "traditional marriage norms" would have probably been more clear language for the readership - but that would have likely incited the same angry reaction, just with different spin! Instead of "omg handmaiden's tale :mad:" we would have some 100 op-eds about the oppression of sexual minorities. I'll agree with you that Peterson has been operating outside of his lane on a number of things, but that's par for the course for almost all public intellectuals unfortunately. What he needs to do is find partners in other relevant disciplines. However, the likelihood of other professionals even of like mind wanting to take on the risk probably approaches zero. There's only enough tenure privilege and patreon dollars to go around.
 
So, I feel like Peterson is on his way out (intellectually) for putting his foot in his mouth in interviews like this:

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/05/18/...s-for-life.html#click=https://t.co/ZQRGi2qSqr



Of course, he's likely to retain (and maybe gain) plenty of followers in his current internet subcultures.

I want to chime in on this briefly. I am someone who was helped immensely by Peterson's lectures. Roughly a year ago I started watching his "Maps of Meaning" lecture series and they have been more beneficial to me than any therapist I've been able to see in person. That particular lecture series was fairly apolitical, aside from the occasional ranting about marxism, so I feel that I was introduced to him as a psychologist first and a political pundit second. Maybe that has made his more political output more palatable to me as I don't exactly align with him politically. Later on, I watched many of his other lectures and interviews including many of a more political nature, basically up until I reached a point of saturation where I felt that his every talking point was something I've heard him go over before.

My point is, I think I know his views fairly well at this point and I largely see him mischaracterized in media. I think there are legitimate grievances to be had with him; as far as I can tell, his understanding of marxism/post-modernism (and by extension, his conspiratorial ravings about an all-pervasive "post-modern marxist" agenda) is really derived entirely from one old obscure book on the subject no one considers authoritative. His calling for marxist professors to be censored is terribly dissonant with his advocacy for free speech. There are other things, too. But his critics usually seem to call him out on the wrong points. For instance, a common mistake is that they think he's being prescriptive when he's not. So they'll accuse him of being against the birth-control pill for simply discussing its societal impact, or of promoting outdated hierarchical structures ("So you're saying that we should organize our societies along the lines of the lobsters?") just for trying to explain hierarchies through something other than a lens of marxist theory. I'm not accusing you or anyone else on this site of making this mistake, I just think this is the line of thinking many journalists follow when they go on to characterize him as some radical traditionalist.

This nytimes article reads to me like a hit piece. What little of it is quoted directly from Peterson seems to have been handpicked to portray him as either an extremist, or a lunatic (such as the parts where he talks about witches and dragons being real) and most of the article just describes the author's own interpretation of Peterson's character and views. She clearly wants to portray him as the patron saint of alt-righters, men's rights activists and other deplorables. I don't think it's grounded in reality, and I don't think Peterson should be discredited as an intellectual because of how he is presented in an article this slanted.
 
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I don't see any reason though to assume that he meant forced marriage.

All we can ever do is assume what someone means, and in this case I wasn't aware of the obscure anthropological meaning that he supposedly "intended."

My point is that, based on what you've linked, I'm convinced that he didn't clarify what "enforced monogamy" meant because he expected his opponents to jump all over it. And granted, this is what I was talking about by "putting his foot in his mouth." Now he reveals that he was referencing an obscure idea in anthropology and/or evolutionary biology (and some of his supporters are calling it "well-established" language, which is ridiculous).

The entire situation reeks of a public figure drawing out his opponents in order to smack them with knowledge they shouldn't have been expected to have in the first place. He's weaponizing information.

I want to chime in on this briefly. I am someone who was helped immensely by Peterson's lectures. Roughly a year ago I started watching his "Maps of Meaning" lecture series and they have been more beneficial to me than any therapist I've been able to see in person. That particular lecture series was fairly apolitical, aside from the occasional ranting about marxism, so I feel that I was introduced to him as a psychologist first and a political pundit second. Maybe that has made his more political output more palatable to me as I don't exactly align with him politically. Later on, I watched many of his other lectures and interviews including many of a more political nature, basically up until I reached a point of saturation where I felt that his every talking point was something I've heard him go over before.

My point is, I think I know his views fairly well at this point and I largely see him mischaracterized in media. I think there are legitimate grievances to be had with him; as far as I can tell, his understanding of marxism/post-modernism (and by extension, his conspiratorial ravings about an all-pervasive "post-modern marxist" agenda) is really derived entirely from one old obscure book on the subject no one considers authoritative. His calling for marxist professors to be censored is terribly dissonant with his advocacy for free speech. There are other things, too. But his critics usually seem to call him out on the wrong points. For instance, a common mistake is that they think he's being prescriptive when he's not. So they'll accuse him of being against the birth-control pill for simply discussing its societal impact, or of promoting outdated hierarchical structures ("So you're saying that we should organize our societies along the lines of the lobsters?") just for trying to explain hierarchies through something other than a lens of marxist theory. I'm not accusing you or anyone else on this site of making this mistake, I just think this is the line of thinking many journalists follow when they go on to characterize him as some radical traditionalist.

This nytimes article reads to me like a hit piece. What little of it is quoted directly from Peterson seems to have been handpicked to portray him as either an extremist, or a lunatic (such as the parts where he talks about witches and dragons being real) and most of the article just describes the author's own interpretation of Peterson's character and views. She clearly wants to portray him as the patron saint of alt-righters, men's rights activists and other deplorables. I don't think it's grounded in reality, and I don't think Peterson should be discredited as an intellectual because of how he is presented in an article this slanted.

I appreciate this. I'm sure I link to unfair pieces about Peterson, and the NYT is likely no different. I felt that since the NYT was an interview, it was at least a bit more of Peterson's own voice coming through; and I feel like he could have been more eloquent or transparent about some of his claims. This is often my objection to him, and I know that Peterson doesn't care about being linguistically conscious. I have difficulty with that position. I don't want to attack any one person's individual response to Peterson's ideas, especially if those ideas were helpful in the past. Mostly, I just need to stop posting things about Peterson; I disagree with him, and that's that.

The following is a lengthy attempt to clarify my disputes so that no one's under the impression that I'm simply lashing out at Peterson for political reasons (because it goes well beyond politics):

When Peterson argues that hierarchies are found in nature, I balk because the very language/construction is completely contradictory to me. What we mean when we talk about hierarchies isn't--and can't be--found in nature. Hierarchies are our ways of organizing and systematizing the patterns we observe, and in human societies they also become ways of perpetuating particular behaviors and values. Hierarchies, in the sense that humans institute them, don't appear in nonhuman species because such species don't appeal to the existence of hierarchies as justification for their existence (this is part and parcel of hierarchical meaning in human societies; it's basically the linchpin of conservatism). Gazelles don't rise up in revolt against lions, beta chimps don't rebel against the alpha chimps (by which I mean, they don't organize collectively--obviously beta males do challenge alpha males individually).

I understand the point Peterson wants to make: that nonhuman species exhibit particular kinds of organized behavior, and that these behaviors have emerged in hierarchical form in human societies as well. The fact that we can trace these systems back to nonhuman species justifies their existence in human society, and their longevity throughout human history is further evidence that we shouldn't change them. I do grasp the common sense behind this claim; I just don't find it convincing on an intellectual level. It appeals to the nonhuman, or natural, as the ground (i.e. basis) for human behavior and social organization. Such an argument assumes "the human" to be largely unnatural, or descended from nature, and that we need to get back to nature, so to speak (for Peterson, this is his claim that we need to look back to ancient myths, which are somehow closer to nature). This argument assumes a myth of origins--that there's some primeval truth of natural existence that humanity has lost because we're so far from it.

The way I see it, there's nothing less natural about the way we behave today than the way dinosaurs behaved millions of years ago. There is no secret formula in ancient myths or in the behavior of nonhuman species. There are only patterns of behavior--alternatives and variations, repetitions and mutations. When we impose a hierarchical structure onto the way other animals behave, we project some natural or pre-given reason for that behavior into the distant past, as though it existed prior to the emergence of that behavior. But there are no reasons that predate behavior in any intentional or directed sense. The universe didn't have a plan for all living things when it came into existence. That's what I think, anyway. That's my (non-)myth.

If there's one positive thing I can say about Peterson, it's that he's an entertaining literary critic; but he mistakes hermeneutics (i.e. meaning-making, interpretation, a la "maps of meaning") for a code that unlocks reality. Interpretation doesn't unlock hidden meanings. It produces new meanings.
 
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The entire enforced monogamy situation basically proves that Jordan Peterson is a hack, at least as far as politics are concerned, since the only plausible reasons why he would have used that language without clarification are that he meant it at face value or that he planned for people to misunderstand him so that he could push back on their criticisms and act like he was being misrepresented. I believe that the latter is true, which means that he is intentionally trying to exploit a situation that he caused expressly so that he would have a reason to act like his critics are unjustified.

Anyone at his level should be able to tell how such a phrase is likely to be interpreted. If he's even half as eloquent and intellectual as his most ardent followers believe, then this situation is clearly his own doing with the goal of being misinterpreted for his own gains.
 
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Doesn't Europe generally allow prostitution? Prostitution is the solution for the args of the world in a world that doesn't frown on extramarital sex. Allowing "free love" but generally disallowing sex work is going to leave a not-insignificant number of men SOL. I'm still trying to figure out how the parents didn't "know their son to be someone like that" or whatever, when he's wearing trench coats to school and posting it on FB with cthulu and commie pins on it (if the interwebs is to be believe).

In other news: http://freakonomics.com/podcast/corporate-social-responsibility/

Moral licensing might explain inconsistency in virtue signaling behavior vs actually being a good person. Why you get a feminist calling the police on a black woman over nothing.

Wikipedia's telling me that prostitution is effectively illegal in Canada, France, Norway, Sweden, and Ireland, but legal in most other Western places. fwiw I don't disagree that prostitution probably does help reduce violence at least among some undersexed men, and off the top of my head I know there was a study indicating that rape went down over the period where prostitution in Rhode Island was legal via loophole, but I don't see it as a significant, let alone primary driver of male violence.
 
He's weaponizing information.

I have a mixed response on this. On the one hand, all of his material is freely available online, and one can spend weeks watching it all probably. I'm not entirely sure he ever used the term "enforced monogamy" before, but it's not like he plays things close to the vest and then springs it all out there. Anyone familiar with him knew what he meant, and anyone not familiar with him can't claim the fault lies with him for not spending time explaining what he thinks. There's even, imo, a relatively quick "saturation point", that VG noted (quicker for me probably with a psychology background).

On the other hand, if we agree with your perspective that he's setting up these journalists (and the readership) for a gotcha, I can't say I'm not sympathetic, when the interviews are almost all antagonistic. Flipping the "gotcha" on the person doing a thinly veiled smear piece probably does provide him some enjoyment. Just as an anecdote as to how this is a bipartisan sympathy of mine, I was amused watching an old Firing Line with Saul Alinsky, specifically at Alinsky knocking Buckley out of his smug reclining position at least once.

When Peterson argues that hierarchies are found in nature, I balk because the very language/construction is completely contradictory to me. What we mean when we talk about hierarchies isn't--and can't be--found in nature. Hierarchies are our ways of organizing and systematizing the patterns we observe, and in human societies they also become ways of perpetuating particular behaviors and values. Hierarchies, in the sense that humans institute them, don't appear in nonhuman species because such species don't appeal to the existence of hierarchies as justification for their existence (this is part and parcel of hierarchical meaning in human societies; it's basically the linchpin of conservatism). Gazelles don't rise up in revolt against lions, beta chimps don't rebel against the alpha chimps (by which I mean, they don't organize collectively--obviously beta males do challenge alpha males individually).

I understand the point Peterson wants to make: that nonhuman species exhibit particular kinds of organized behavior, and that these behaviors have emerged in hierarchical form in human societies as well. The fact that we can trace these systems back to nonhuman species justifies their existence in human society, and their longevity throughout human history is further evidence that we shouldn't change them. I do grasp the common sense behind this claim; I just don't find it convincing on an intellectual level. It appeals to the nonhuman, or natural, as the ground (i.e. basis) for human behavior and social organization. Such an argument assumes "the human" to be largely unnatural, or descended from nature, and that we need to get back to nature, so to speak (for Peterson, this is his claim that we need to look back to ancient myths, which are somehow closer to nature). This argument assumes a myth of origins--that there's some primeval truth of natural existence that humanity has lost because we're so far from it.

The way I see it, there's nothing less natural about the way we behave today than the way dinosaurs behaved millions of years ago. There is no secret formula in ancient myths or in the behavior of nonhuman species. There are only patterns of behavior--alternatives and variations, repetitions and mutations. When we impose a hierarchical structure onto the way other animals behave, we project some natural or pre-given reason for that behavior into the distant past, as though it existed prior to the emergence of that behavior. But there are no reasons that predate behavior in any intentional or directed sense. The universe didn't have a plan for all living things when it came into existence. That's what I think, anyway. That's my (non-)myth.

If there's one positive thing I can say about Peterson, it's that he's an entertaining literary critic; but he mistakes hermeneutics (i.e. meaning-making, interpretation, a la "maps of meaning") for a code that unlocks reality. Interpretation doesn't unlock hidden meanings. It produces new meanings.

I can agree that appealing to lobsters, while it's made for some meme-material, probably has hurt more than helped, for some of the reasons you just mentioned, and some other more technical ones. With what you're taking issue with more generally though, you're mostly arguing with Jung, and Peterson is a just a contemporary disciple. The degree to which you disagree that there are things like archetypes in the subconscious, or that there are persistent patterns of behavior in accordance with some sort of biological foundation which we may lack the theory or instrumentation to capture, you're not going to find anything interesting in Peterson's broader social positions. I do think there are, broadly, potential norms which larger groups of people will operate best within. But of course there will be minorities and that is where the rub is for liberals in this day and age (and the reality would be the minorities of various types will exist anyway, no matter how society contorts and changes norms and language). As I've also already said, to the degree to which you don't experience clinical levels of anxiety or depression, or even a simple lack of direction or inspiration in life, you're not a Bucko who needs to clean his (or her) room.

The entire enforced monogamy situation basically proves that Jordan Peterson is a hack, at least as far as politics are concerned, since the only plausible reasons why he would have used that language without clarification are that he meant it at face value or that he planned for people to misunderstand him so that he could push back on their criticisms and act like he was being misrepresented. I believe that the latter is true, which means that he is intentionally trying to exploit a situation that he caused expressly so that he would have a reason to act like his critics are unjustified.

Anyone at his level should be able to tell how such a phrase is likely to be interpreted. If he's even half as eloquent and intellectual as his most ardent followers believe, then this situation is clearly his own doing with the goal of being misinterpreted for his own gains.

Monogamy =/= marriage. Subconsciously substituting one for the other is your (and others) fault, not his.That he could have been verbosely explicit doesn't absolve one for substituting meanings.

Wikipedia's telling me that prostitution is effectively illegal in Canada, France, Norway, Sweden, and Ireland, but legal in most other Western places. fwiw I don't disagree that prostitution probably does help reduce violence at least among some undersexed men, and off the top of my head I know there was a study indicating that rape went down over the period where prostitution in Rhode Island was legal via loophole, but I don't see it as a significant, let alone primary driver of male violence.

So what's your assertion? I'll agree that it's not explicitly the primary driver of all male violence. However, traditional norms on family responsibility were at least a partial check against it.
 
Monogamy =/= marriage. Subconsciously substituting one for the other is your (and others) fault, not his.That he could have been verbosely explicit doesn't absolve one for substituting meanings.

1. Where are you deriving the conclusion that I misinterpreted his words? Read my post if you want to actually pass as even remotely in this debate.

2. As far as monogamy goes, the most common usage, the primary definition according to all credible resources, the word's original meaning and the root words that the term is derived from all refer to marriage.

As a professional speaker (and supposedly a psychologist), Kermit the Frog would obviously be aware of these things. He made a decision not to clarify himself, probably with the intent of being mosunderstood so that he could raise an objection to it. Deny it if you want, but it's as plain as day that he went out of his way to use uncommon terminology without clarifying what he meant until afterwards.
 
So what's your assertion? I'll agree that it's not explicitly the primary driver of all male violence. However, traditional norms on family responsibility were at least a partial check against it.

I'd argue that the institution of marriage has much more value socially-speaking as an instrument of stable households and preventing children from going native. Men commit the vast majority of violence no matter the social status quo, and often a huge chunk of that violence takes form in spousal abuse. Strong social pressures of monogamy and marriage don't prevent violence against women, they just regulate it and, through much of history, legalize it, treating it as a necessary evil so that women continue their motherly duties. Violence and homicide rates fluctuate significantly through history and I've never seen an argument (let alone a compelling one) that "violent attacks are what happens when men do not have partners" or that "monogamy emerges [because violent men are] angry". The fact that violence has been on a gradual 200+ year decline with a few bumps and dips here and there would seem to indicate that free love doesn't have much to do with it. Is it the reason one incel goes on a killing spree every five years or so? Sure, but that doesn't make it a social problem, let alone one which needs to be addressed with ancient solutions to a problem already solved. It's a problem of a tiny minority of losers and the solution is probably better policing of places like /r9k/.
 
1. Where are you deriving the conclusion that I misinterpreted his words? Read my post if you want to actually pass as even remotely in this debate.

2. As far as monogamy goes, the most common usage, the primary definition according to all credible resources, the word's original meaning and the root words that the term is derived from all refer to marriage.

As a professional speaker (and supposedly a psychologist), Kermit the Frog would obviously be aware of these things. He made a decision not to clarify himself, probably with the intent of being mosunderstood so that he could raise an objection to it. Deny it if you want, but it's as plain as day that he went out of his way to use uncommon terminology without clarifying what he meant until afterwards.

The root of the word does relate to marriage. But enforcement of marriage isn't forced marriage, and doesn't have a root in the state as we conceive it, and currently usage has been separated from marriage to strictly sexual relations. Which, if you want, could be support for your claim he was using language which could easily be interpreted in a way in which he could claim he didn't mean it. But again, that merely shows your leaning rather than his in jumping to assume the worst about someone you haven't bothered to investigate in any real way otherwise. The correct response to something you weren't sure of as to the meaning, in an intellectually curious fashion is to go "That's an odd turn of phrase, I wonder what he meant by that" and get clarification. Not what you and the twitterverse et al just did.

https://thefederalist.com/2018/05/21/the-left-and-the-right-arent-hearing-the-same-jordan-peterson/

Peterson blames Bowles for not being familiar with the relevant literature, but “enforced monogamy,” is not a well-known term of art, and it does sound menacing. Bowles probably should have asked for clarification before presenting it as absurd, but Peterson also has to know and anticipate that these kinds of attacks are going to be leveled at him by people who may be ill-informed in anthropology, but nonetheless well-intentioned.

Some of the confusion over just what Peterson means to propose is that most of his content is delivered verbally, either in lectures or interviews. Indeed, as in this case, once presented with someone’s confusion Peterson will often go to his blog to effectively explain the position.

But you aren't interested in reading what he has to say or listening for clarification, only complaining when the snippet that slips across your social media feed isn't in precisely in the verbage you would like, and that he bothers to clarify it is more proof that he was acting in bad faith to begin with.
 
I'd argue that the institution of marriage has much more value socially-speaking as an instrument of stable households and preventing children from going native. Men commit the vast majority of violence no matter the social status quo, and often a huge chunk of that violence takes form in spousal abuse. Strong social pressures of monogamy and marriage don't prevent violence against women, they just regulate it and, through much of history, legalize it, treating it as a necessary evil so that women continue their motherly duties. Violence and homicide rates fluctuate significantly through history and I've never seen an argument (let alone a compelling one) that "violent attacks are what happens when men do not have partners" or that "monogamy emerges [because violent men are] angry". The fact that violence has been on a gradual 200+ year decline with a few bumps and dips here and there would seem to indicate that free love doesn't have much to do with it. Is it the reason one incel goes on a killing spree every five years or so? Sure, but that doesn't make it a social problem, let alone one which needs to be addressed with ancient solutions to a problem already solved. It's a problem of a tiny minority of losers and the solution is probably better policing of places like /r9k/.

You might find this an interesting read by an anthropology student at UC Davis.

http://quillette.com/2018/02/24/behavioral-ecology-male-violence/


However, when looking at the most common causes of lethal conflict across cultures, we can see a clear relationship between a male’s fitness interests and killings. Homicide often occurs in the context of revenge, fights over status, and sexual jealousy.25 Competition for territory and resources also plays a strong role, particularly in the context of coalitionary killings, such as in gang violence and warfare. Cross-culturally, revenge often occurs in the context of seeking vengeance for a relative that was killed, which may act to deter future attacks on the killer’s relatives, and thus increase his inclusive fitness. Revenge is also often related to fights over status against rival males. Furthermore, having high-status and being able to control desired territory and resources can often increase a male’s reproductive success, through mechanisms beyond just force, such as female choice, or by being a preferred partner in marriages arranged by a potential wife’s parents.26

As for homicide due to sexual jealousy, this often occurs in the context of the (real or perceived) threat of infidelity.27 This might be a male killing his wife’s lover, or his wife, out of a belief that she is cheating, or fears that she will leave him.

As these patterns indicate, male violence in humans often occurs in contexts where a man’s reproductive success is threatened, or where he may derive greater reproductive success from engaging in violence. Due to our evolutionary history, even in modern contexts where specific violent behaviors may not be fitness maximizing, such as in an armed robbery or gang violence, we can consider these behaviors to be, in part, a byproduct of a greater propensity among males to aggressively pursue status and gain resources in ways that would have increased their reproductive success in the past.28
 
The root of the word does relate to marriage. But enforcement of marriage isn't forced marriage, and doesn't have a root in the state as we conceive it, and currently usage has been separated from marriage to strictly sexual relations. Which, if you want, could be support for your claim he was using language which could easily be interpreted in a way in which he could claim he didn't mean it. But again, that merely shows your leaning rather than his in jumping to assume the worst about someone you haven't bothered to investigate in any real way otherwise. The correct response to something you weren't sure of as to the meaning, in an intellectually curious fashion is to go "That's an odd turn of phrase, I wonder what he meant by that" and get clarification. Not what you and the twitterverse et al just did.

https://thefederalist.com/2018/05/21/the-left-and-the-right-arent-hearing-the-same-jordan-peterson/



But you aren't interested in reading what he has to say or listening for clarification, only complaining when the snippet that slips across your social media feed isn't in precisely in the verbage you would like, and that he bothers to clarify it is more proof that he was acting in bad faith to begin with.

I actually did wait for him to clarify what he meant before commenting about it here or anywhere else. Please stop lying in order to advance your argument by claiming that I did otherwise. You are clearly very incorrect in your assertions and I find it hard to believe that it's not deliberate exaggeration of my behavior since, while I tend to find you fairly ridiculous at times, you are not that stupid.

My criticism of him is solely due to the fact that he is a professional speaker who made a comment using uncommon terminology that was obviously going to be taken a certain way and offered a very well-crafted explanation only after he was misinterpreted, despite it being misinterpreted being an obvious outcome for anyone who has even a modicum of foresight. I feel that he did this purposefully.

Interestingly enough, you keep claiming that I said or felt things about his statement that are unrelated to my sole criticism of this situation.
 
With what you're taking issue with more generally though, you're mostly arguing with Jung, and Peterson is a just a contemporary disciple.

Seeing as Freud's ideas are considered subpar for contemporary psychological standards, I can't imagine that Jung represents a higher standard of practice. Do psychologists really take seriously people who call themselves "Jungians"?

Subconsciously substituting one for the other is your (and others) fault, not his.That he could have been verbosely explicit doesn't absolve one for substituting meanings.

Do we need absolution? Have we trespassed for reacting a certain way? You talk of meaning like it can be managed (which I assume Peterson believes too), but that's neither reasonable nor realistic. When the general sentiment is that women are better off when they're married, and that they're whiny, thankless witches for complaining about the state of marriage, then I'll go so far as to say I don't care if there is some obscure anthropological consensus on "enforced monogamy." Even if Peterson is claiming that that's what he meant, it isn't the only meaning at play here. Another one is that men and women should be married; and another one is that some degree of institutional "redistribution of sex" (to borrow the interviewer's language, not Peterson's) is necessary for a society to maintain stability of marriage.

I piss people off with claims like this because I'm suggesting something is at play in Peterson's language despite the fact that he's not explicit about it. But that's how meaning works. Peterson's not some pinnacle of meta-semantic wizardry who's in control of the language he uses. Whether he weaponizes information or not, whether he sets the trap or not--he's completely misguided about how meaning works, which is too bad for a guy who wrote a book called Maps of Meaning.

I quote Cavell:

What needs to be argued now is that something does follow from the fact that a term is used in its usual way: it entitles you (or, using the term, you entitle others) to make certain inferences, draw certain conclusions. (This is part of what you say when you say that you are talking about the logic of ordinary language.) Learning what these implications are is part of learning the language; no less a part than learning its syntax, or learning what it is to which terms apply: they are an essential part of what we communicate when we talk. Intimate understanding is understanding which is implicit. Nor could everything we say (mean to communicate), in normal communication, be said explicitly--otherwise the only threat to communication would be acoustical. We are, therefore, exactly as responsible for the specific implications of our utterances as we are for their explicit factual claims.
 
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I actually did wait for him to clarify what he meant before commenting about it here or anywhere else. Please stop lying in order to advance your argument by claiming that I did otherwise. You are clearly very incorrect in your assertions and I find it hard to believe that it's not deliberate exaggeration of my behavior since, while I tend to find you fairly ridiculous at times, you are not that stupid.

My criticism of him is solely due to the fact that he is a professional speaker who made a comment using uncommon terminology that was obviously going to be taken a certain way and offered a very well-crafted explanation only after he was misinterpreted, despite it being misinterpreted being an obvious outcome for anyone who has even a modicum of foresight. I feel that he did this purposefully.

Interestingly enough, you keep claiming that I said or felt things about his statement that are unrelated to my sole criticism of this situation.

You (claim you) waited for clarification before commenting. Assuming that is true (that you specifically heard of the quote, then waited for him to clarify it), that doesn't mean you didn't assume the negative interpretation. Would you have been happy if he meant something other than forced marriage? No. So what we have is a damned if you do/damned if you don't situation. You're making the implicit argument Peterson must bend over backwards to try and correct the perspective of a smear piece. I'd counter "Why waste the effort?" He's quite verbose in his speeches and lectures and whatnot. You could have gone there.

Seeing as Freud's ideas are considered subpar for contemporary psychological standards, I can't imagine that Jung represents a higher standard of practice. Do psychologists really take seriously people who call themselves "Jungians"?

Not really, which is why it doesn't enter into his published work that I know of. Obviously this is because it's not testable. It falls in the philosophical realm moreso than the psychological realm in that sense. Of course, this doesn't stop a not-insignificant amount of Yankees from utilizing the psychoanalytic services which cluster around NYC, at least if I am recalling correctly. To be fair,, "common factors" theory and research has asserted psychoanalytic therapy has equivalent long term outcomes for common mental health issues like depression or anxiety, and potentially PTSD at least. However, it does not have better short term outcomes, with psychoanalytic therapy often requiring years, as opposed to a 12-16 week course which is typical of CBT and related approaches.

Do we need absolution? Have we trespassed for reacting a certain way? You talk of meaning like it can be managed (which I assume Peterson believes too), but that's neither reasonable nor realistic. When the general sentiment is that women are better off when they're married, and that they're whiny, thankless witches for complaining about the state of marriage, then I'll go so far as to say I don't care if there is some obscure anthropological consensus on "enforced monogamy." Even if Peterson is claiming that that's what he meant, it isn't the only meaning at play here. Another one is that men and women should be married; and another one is that some degree of institutional "redistribution of sex" (to borrow the interviewer's language, not Peterson's) is necessary for a society to maintain stability of marriage.

I piss people off with claims like this because I'm suggesting something is at play in Peterson's language despite the fact that he's not explicit about it. But that's how meaning works. Peterson's not some pinnacle of meta-semantic wizardry who's in control of the language he uses. Whether he weaponizes information or not, whether he sets the trap or not--he's completely misguided about how meaning works, which is too bad for a guy who wrote a book called Maps of Meaning.
I quote Cavell:

Well, I operate in environments where meaning is at least more managed, although not entirely, so I have to remember that. That's obviously not the broad social situation. Similar to my comment about Trump and Peterson revealing some religious like preferences, what we're seeing in the taken meaning of words or phrases are implicit value structures (religious-ish) and assumptions. Rather than "dog whistle" claims, I mean that these aren't one sided hints, but words or phrases that can conversely sooth or enrage, with a lack of complete consistency in a purely logical sense. Say redistribution and conservatives start to scowl, "of international trade" after and they perk up. Say redistribution and liberals perk up, "of sex" on the end and the proverbial knives come out. Peterson could have clarified (and did) what he meant, and it didn't lessen in antipathy for his position. Even if someone opposed engaging in gotcha tactics (like Omni or you suggested), you stated above you aren't happy about his clarified position, and I have no reason to believe Omni is either. That's the real discussion, and getting upset about his ripostes with antagostic journalists and those who take them seriously isn't treating with the issue or why he has the sway that he does. It's not merely that he gets a rise, but more importantly why - whether a good or bad rise.
 
You might find this an interesting read by an anthropology student at UC Davis.

http://quillette.com/2018/02/24/behavioral-ecology-male-violence/

I don't really disagree with that portion or anything else in the article, but it's not really enough to defend Peterson's claim. There's no doubt that reproduction is the defining event that animals compete over alongside food/water, and no doubt that males compete in a usually-violent way. That doesn't prove, for example:

1) that sexual satisfaction is lacking in men (porn and masturbation substitute fine for many)
2) that a significant number of sexually unsatisfied men resort to violence (for the animal angle, look at any defeated male in sexual competition: they simply become insignificant members of the herd/pack and die without offspring; for the human angle, look at any statistics indicating that violent men often have more children than non-violent men, indicating that cause and effect are reversed)
3) that marriage was instituted to provide sexual satisfaction for more men for the purpose of reducing crime (when there are plenty of other factors like the development of more complex societal roles to better aid in war vs manufacturing, as well as the role of religion)
 
I don't really disagree with that portion or anything else in the article, but it's not really enough to defend Peterson's claim. There's no doubt that reproduction is the defining event that animals compete over alongside food/water, and no doubt that males compete in a usually-violent way. That doesn't prove, for example:

1) that sexual satisfaction is lacking in men (porn and masturbation substitute fine for many)
2) that a significant number of sexually unsatisfied men resort to violence (for the animal angle, look at any defeated male in sexual competition: they simply become insignificant members of the herd/pack and die without offspring; for the human angle, look at any statistics indicating that violent men often have more children than non-violent men, indicating that cause and effect are reversed)
3) that marriage was instituted to provide sexual satisfaction for more men for the purpose of reducing crime (when there are plenty of other factors like the development of more complex societal roles to better aid in war vs manufacturing, as well as the role of religion)

I think those are superficially reasonable counter arguments, but that they don't hold up under scrutiny. First of all, that violent men have more children is an issue which traditional monogamy was, at least in part, trying to contain. Violence involves an expenditure of energy, and successful violence (until recent times with equilizers or maximizers like guns) required power which was more socially useful in productive capacity (outside of war contexts). Furthermore, limiting violent/powerful males to one woman, even if the "top" sort, allows for more equitable sorting. This somewhat addresses 2 and 3.

1 is probably reasonable insofar as we don't have thousands of instances of incel violence, and VR and sexbot technology would probably only enhance this. However, while this might help prevent violence, it's not a broad prosocial or prospecies solution, and doesn't get at the human connection, commitment, or "romance". Again, while polygyny isn't something feminists explicitly endorse, heterosexual feminists promote the sexual equivalent. 100% of women competing for 20% of the men (hattip to dating surveys; although really only about 40% have a reasonable shot at a pumpndump from that 20%, and about 5% have a shot at locking the guy down). That realtalk is abrasive but it's a dynamic taking place across dating apps, bars, universities, etc as we speak. Pumpndump also describes the exact same act as a "empowering consensual one-night-stand", or whatever. Perspective. Values. Meaning. Romantically (or maybe specifically just sexually) unfulfilled men who aren't content with porn or masturbation can erupt in violence in highschool or at college. Romantically (or maybe specifically just sexually)unfulfilled women who aren't content with porn or masturbation erupt on twitter, HuffPo, or whatever. Or they sexually prey on highschool boys. I've lost count of the highschool female teacher predators lately.
 
You're treating humans like cheetahs which have 30 seconds to catch that gazelle before they suffer exhaustion and increased risk of starvation. Food was of course not as abundant at any time in the past as it is now, but for human men beginning their sexual primes, it wasn't really a huge issue outside of famines afaik, once the agricultural revolution began. Societies grew relatively slowly and sustainably thanks to high child mortality rates, there was a lot more land to divide between families, and there were higher degrees of self-sufficiency necessitated by the short distances one could reasonable move their crops without spoilage. If Gallus wanted to fuck Aelia and had to fuck Titus up in order to do so, it wasn't difficult to lick his wounds when beaten and try again later. Those videos of penguins gouging out each others eyes during the one month of the year where they get horny, though? It's all or nothing. The time scale in which human males may hone their violence is orders of magnitude greater than that of many animals, not to mention the capacity of learning how to do so.

Repeating that traditional monogamy "tried" to do anything doesn't make it so. Defend that claim. You've consistently ignored other societal advantages I've previously mentioned of the implementation of such a system. Further, you completely missed the point I was making. That you can believe traditional monogamy was a system of reducing sex-driven male violence, while also acknowledging that it doesn't in practice stop sex-driven men from committing violence, is a pretty obvious hole in your logic. The more obvious explanation is that human individuals are rather diverse in their behaviors, significantly owing to biological reasons, and that willingness to compete is associated with traits as diverse as extroversion, tolerance for violence, and desire for sex/pleasure. How did society ever get off the ground if all it takes is an angry unsexed male majority to thrive in numbers and kill their sexually-successful superiors in order to gain access to women? There are far too many social inputs that govern human behavior, and those that do have a natural predilection towards sex-motivated violence are going to do it no matter the system (and the real solution to that problem is execution, something that we know has been applied to violent criminals for many millennia).

Define the need for a "broad prosocial or prospecies solution", as well as the social problem requiring a solution. What makes pornography not a social solution? It exists in and is a part of our society. It undoubtedly solves some kind of problem for a significant portion of our society. I don't know what you mean by species either; is there evidence of this . Dating app statistics are meaningless; obviously young women have greater access to sex than young men, owing to young men being more sexually-driven than young women, and programs which exist purely to satiate an urge for quick sexual relationships are going to show that bias. At the same time, in practice, most men and women alike have no problem finding sex. Half lose their virginity before graduating high school, ~90% lose it before graduating college (or reaching the equivalent age). Polyamory is extremely common on college campuses. iirc, the recent uptick in male virginity started a fair bit after the sexual revolution, and if anything is probably more caused by easier access to sexual outlets like porn, which are cheaper than sex both financially and socially, and allow men that prioritize other biological impulses (e.g. accumulation of resources, something associated with sexlessness when it reaches the stage of hoarding). In the long run, regarding any broad social/demographic issues, most young women eventually feel maternal urges grow and find some man to settle with so it's a moot point anyways.