just venting... and anyone got advice?

[Will Bozarth]

and im serious, i dont want any "just bang her" or "just grab her ass dude" *looks over at Guerilla*... ok...

theres this girl at school that ive had my eye on for the past few months.... actually, since last year... we're close friends, know alot about each other, and whatever. she always complains about not having a boyfriend, shes lonely, yadedah, u know how that goes... so, i slip and say that i have a crush on her a month or so ago, and she reacts something like "oh, thats nice" sort of... she was surprised, but kinda expected it (?). now, a few days ago, this is the the convo that went down on aim (i censored her name to protect the innocent). keep in mind, the Catie she mentions is my ex
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*: hey are you going to the semi if they ahve it?
WillBozarthGCIT: nah
*: why not?
WillBozarthGCIT: dont see any reason why id go, sure itll be a fun thing to go to blablabla, just isnt appealing to me at the
time
*: all right if you insist
*: you know...if you dont mind me venturing...
WillBozarthGCIT: go ahead
*: i think i identified the reason why you liked me at the beginning of the year
WillBozarthGCIT: why was that?
*: i was rebound lol
WillBozarthGCIT: lol wuh?
*: rebound
WillBozarthGCIT: meaning...?
*: damn... how do i explain this
*: like...
*: i was ort of a distraction, someone to bounce off of
*: like johnny was over the summer coz john wasnt around for me to stare at him lol
WillBozarthGCIT: heh
*: ya kow?
*: *know
WillBozarthGCIT: thisll take me a minute to absorb what ya mean, im still a little vague
*: um...
WillBozarthGCIT: sorry, a little braindead
*: i just happened to be aorund at the roight time, and i made you feel happier and i was kind of like a source
when you didnt have catie anymore?
*: kinda like that
WillBozarthGCIT: its funny how assumptions are usually wrong
WillBozarthGCIT: kuz that one is heh
*: :-[
*: LOL
*: ok...lol i wont unquire
*: *inquire
WillBozarthGCIT: dont matter, ill explain myself
*: lol is it possible to unquire?
WillBozarthGCIT: lol
*: *falls out of chair randomly*
WillBozarthGCIT: ahhh thisll be fun to type... eesh
WillBozarthGCIT: ook
*: no!
*: dont!
*: i cant take the drama!
WillBozarthGCIT: ok then, nevermind
WillBozarthGCIT: the drama eh?
*: you need not explain
*: ...yes...
WillBozarthGCIT: yes i do, because the way you make it seem is that you think i liked you is because of being empty of a
girlfriend
WillBozarthGCIT: as.... as past-time, so-to-speak
*: well kinda like that
WillBozarthGCIT: and i just wanted to correct the way you were thinking and put the falsehood into a.... truehood?
*: i wish caitlin were aorund: she can better define rebound than i
WillBozarthGCIT: so ur not interested in reading what i had to say?
*: ....it would probably be better if i didnt lol
WillBozarthGCIT: ok then, its up to you.... but i WILL tell you this
*: *braces herslef*
WillBozarthGCIT: the like isnt a past-tense but a present-tense, which proves that it ISNT because theres no more caitlin
WillBozarthGCIT: if you wanna read more, just say so, and ill explain, if not, ok
*: wait a second...
*: what do you mean by past-tense and present-tense?
*: those are types of verbs if im not mistaken
WillBozarthGCIT: to put it bluntly
WillBozarthGCIT: i still DO like you
*: ....why?
*: never mind thats not a why question
WillBozarthGCIT: do you want my explanation no w?
WillBozarthGCIT: now*
*: will it make you feel better?
WillBozarthGCIT: depends if you wanna hear it or if you wanna shrug off the fact that someone DOES like you
WillBozarthGCIT: not to sound like an asshole in saying that, but its just the way it came out
*: well im not gonna shrug it off coz its unpreventable at the moment... but i'm already blushing furiously as it is
WillBozarthGCIT: i guess it isnt
*: huh?
*: what isnt?
WillBozarthGCIT: er, worded wrong
WillBozarthGCIT: unpreventable
WillBozarthGCIT: somethin or other
WillBozarthGCIT: anyway, to get rid of any confusion on the matter, do you want an explanation or woudl you like to just
leave it as it is
*: seriously, whatever will put you the most at ease
WillBozarthGCIT: k
WillBozarthGCIT: explanation it is
WillBozarthGCIT: i like you (yes, still do), because of who you are, how you are, because you have a sense of humor,
because you can accept people for who they are, because you're nice, because ur attractive.... not because of my lacking a
lifeboat in the middle of my sinking mental ocean
WillBozarthGCIT: take that as you wish, but its the truth, and theres no changing the truth...
WillBozarthGCIT: and i know theres a slim chance of you ever thinking that way about me, we're 2 different people, but with
similar interests, which is why i dont mention the facts that i mentioned up there ^^^^^^
WillBozarthGCIT: sorry for wasting the amount of time i did in this explanation
*: nah its ok
WillBozarthGCIT: blah, that took alot to get out heh
*: do you feel better now?
WillBozarthGCIT: i guess so
*: lol
WillBozarthGCIT: dont know if it changes matters, but i bet it shed some light on the topic
*: i daresay
*: i was kinda wondering if you still liked me... but i didnt see a point in venturing
WillBozarthGCIT: well theres ur answer heh
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so theres that, kind of acting like "oh, you still like me...." anyone have any advice?

 

[mReEtTaIlRsEkD]

hmmmmm

 

[Karmic]

but she never told you if she liked you.
try to get that answer from her

 

[Will Bozarth]

true... good idea... i wonder how id bring that question up

 

[Karmic]

ask straight on.
if she feels the same.

actually you almost got an answer.
but she was blushing furiously... ^^

 

[famousamoswillkillyou]

*reads over it* Hmm... well, being a chick, maybe I can read her a bit...

She was very unclear. Very. Almost like she was... confused. I'd suggest talking to her in person, it'll be much easier to read her reaction... perhaps she's so flattered and shocked that she doesn't know what to say. Keep talking to her... see what happens.

And it was kick-ass of you to be open with it... so many guys act like dickheads and keep their mouths shut too long.

 

[Will Bozarth]

tnx im gonna wait for her to get online again to ask that one im a shy bastard

 

[Guerrilla]

<- Acts like a dickhead and keeps his mouth shut too long.

 

[Will Bozarth]

amos - thanks hehe... most guys ARE pricks... im one of the very few that arent... its gonna be tough to do it in person tho

 

[Iris]

oooh!!! she's daring you ,Will!
(damn, these woman are bad, real bad!!)
She made her move...
Play it well, do your next move and make it a check-MATE!
Keep your distance, don't stay on her back, that gives her the idea she has you already and don't have to do anything for it, she's playing games. Best way to deal with this, is create your own rules, fuck hers! She wants to play mysterious?
Then show her some brains, it'll drive her crazy!
Just stay of her back, don't try to get in contact with her.
It looks to me she wants you to crawl for her, fuck it!
You already have been honest to her, she knows it's a vulnerable part...don't give her the chance to take advantage of it, just stay away from her!! To speak with Tori Amos words: this is the way to find out, she's a killer or a honey-bee
If she really wants you, she'll bend eventually, no woman can STAND a man she wants, when he's acting like that.
If she doesn't come across? Then atleast you kept your dignity and you didn't played the fool !!!!!!!!!!
BE CAREFUL: these woman are armed, they shoot you in the back!!!
Outsmart her, Will.
When she asks you" why are you acting like this? Then give her back what she gave you..." I thought YOU were the one who wasn't venturing?" CHECK-MATE!
And uhmm...good luck!

xxx Iris xxx

 

[Will Bozarth]

that doesnt seem like me at all

 

[Karmic]

Originally posted by famousamoswillkillyou

And it was kick-ass of you to be open with it... so many guys act like dickheads and keep their mouths shut too long.

like me ^^

 

[Will Bozarth]

if i do that, ill come across as an asshole, and id rather have no girlfriend at all than be classified as that


*edit; this was to iris*

 

[mReEtTaIlRsEkD]

dude, she can see the path you never thought to follow

\m/

 

[Will Bozarth]

damn thats creepy... but in the end, which one will make me feel hollow?

 

[Karmic]

the death of passion.
thats whatll happen if you do the wrong moves....

 

[Karmic]

*hint hint*

 

[Iris]

well, i don't know you, but if i was a guy, i would have act like this.
I mean, com 'on..if you like somebody, just TELL that person you like him or her... (i did that too, ok..the guy is a friend of mine for several years now, but i told 'm years ago..he was flattered but he didn't saw me the way i saw him...he just wanted to be my friend...and it took only 1 hour to clear that up! No hard feelings, we're still very good friends, it took me some time to get over it but i'm ok with it now...he never hurted my feelings, he was honest too...)
You did the same thing, and that is indeed, very cool!
But it looks like she isn't interested to me, if i'm honest.. OR she's playing games and woman who play games are trouble!
You said you didn't wanted to just fuck her, you are serious...
Ok, i'm a radical type of woman, i know..if some one shoots a bullit at me, i'll make sure i'll kill him or her with their own, when i need to!
But, and i agree with Famousamos over here...you can try to talk to her in person and ask her what she meant by not seeing the point of venturing....communicate with her.
Tell her you're serious...and if that doesn't work, well...
you can still kill her

xxx Iris xxx
Man, am i glad i work at a record shop and not at a dating-bureau...i suck!!

 

[mReEtTaIlRsEkD]

was she born in the year of the dog?

 

[Guerrilla]

Will she get snatched never to be seen alive again? And will you have nightmares of her drowning?