I should probably give them a closer look then. That's why I like the symphonic metal sound -- it works for most generations on some level. I may have to drop out of the metal genre and try more folk, but I want a dramatic sound for the first dance --without turning the grandparents off. And finding that with medieval overtones is just tough. I was really in love with Swanheart by Nightwish and thought it was perfect until I looked up the lyrics and realized that they're actually not wedding appropriate:
In my world, love is for poets,
Never the famous balcony scene,
Just a dying faith on a heaven's gate.
Yikes, that's sad. Beautiful song though. That's the kind of thing I keep running into.