I really don't read this thread but regarding the superficial remarks: I notice how often women will put up with men who are abusive or absolute jerks if the aforementioned criteria is met.
But besides appearance and possessions, I think women are typically attracted to men who are confident (arrogance is even better), have a sense of humour (underrated and very important), and who either have money or something to aspire to, goals. The problem is, I don't think many women fit this particular criteria at all. In fact I'd argue that they live opposite to this. A flawed sense of confidence (perhaps only in vanity or materialistic matters), a decent job with a decent wage, and a less outgoing sense of humour.
I know people say opposites attract, yin and yang but maybe on some levels it's a bit hypocritical. I'm not saying this is always the case but of my observations it seems to be more accurate than not.
But besides appearance and possessions, I think women are typically attracted to men who are confident (arrogance is even better), have a sense of humour (underrated and very important), and who either have money or something to aspire to, goals. The problem is, I don't think many women fit this particular criteria at all. In fact I'd argue that they live opposite to this. A flawed sense of confidence (perhaps only in vanity or materialistic matters), a decent job with a decent wage, and a less outgoing sense of humour.
I know people say opposites attract, yin and yang but maybe on some levels it's a bit hypocritical. I'm not saying this is always the case but of my observations it seems to be more accurate than not.