Males and Females

I don't get it, is it a competition or something? Are you losing just because she's having sex more? I mean, I don't deny at all that women have it easier when it comes to just getting laid, but if you're already willing to have a girlfriend getting foreign cock in there, what does it matter that you aren't getting as much vag, as long as your own sexual needs are being fulfilled?
 
Because it's natural for heterosexual men to be competitive, and if they see their female partners getting more action then they are, it damages their confidence in their own masculine prowess.
 
It's a really awkward idea to be in an open relationship if you live in a small town or other small settlement.
 
I want to find a bisexual to have an open relationship with. That way we could each fuck the opposite sex sometimes and have amazing threesomes etc etc etc.
 
Ideally I always wanted a three way relationship with two women. I don't care if they have sex without me too, that's fine. I've had a threesome with two women but even then there are too many jealousy issues involved with the female sex for it to work. It'd have to be two VERY confident and independent women for the perfect love triangle.
 
I like monogamy, but not for any purity bullshit, but as a matter of time. I'd so much rather have one person satisfy all of my sexual, social, emotional, and other needs and be there consistently so I dont have to spend other time searching for quicker satisfaction. And I'd like to be that person to the other person.
 
Right now, my sex life is pretty much complete. I've got like 4-5 people who I can see pretty much any time I want. In a relationship though I too prefer monogamy unless its a situation like I described already.
 
I was sitting at a bar yesterday playing chess with this ginger girl and then another girl arrived and started talking to me about second viennese school. My girlfriend is away on some trip.
 
The open relationship is a losing proposition for guys. The girl will always be able to have way more sex than you will. It seems like a weird power play a lot of the time.

For me, it's hard enough to find one girl to bang. If I ever end up in an open relationship, she's getting a free pass to go suck dick while I sit at home doing nothing 90% of the time. Wouldn't seem like a good arrangement for me.

Unless you're into that...

I think the dream is to find a girl that is fine with you having sex outside of the relationship, while she doesn't.
 
Mathiäs;11018881 said:
Right now, my sex life is pretty much complete. I've got like 4-5 people who I can see pretty much any time I want. In a relationship though I too prefer monogamy unless its a situation like I described already.

"4-5 people"? What's the deal with that fifth person? :lol:
 
I think the dream is to find a girl that is fine with you having sex outside of the relationship, while she doesn't.

The only way this is possible is if that girl is a 300 pound beast.

I've been in open relationships and my partners usually said they weren't having sex with other men but were lying. The funny thing is it wasn't to make me feel better but to make them feel better. If the stud/slut thing went away we'd all be having more sex and getting more STDs. It'd be good for the economy.
 
Now, if dating a bisexual girl, I do feel it's fair to give her permission to sleep with ladies on the side. They have something you genuinely can't offer. And they can tell you stories and maybe bring one home if you're lucky.
 
"4-5 people"? What's the deal with that fifth person? :lol:

She's like a once or twice every six months kind of person. Pretty inconsistent.

I think the dream is to find a girl that is fine with you having sex outside of the relationship, while she doesn't.

I would really feel bad about a situation like this while loving it at the same time. Not that such a scenario would ever occur.
 
Had a conversation with a cute waitress this afternoon. I complemented her clearly natural red hair and we ended up bashing on fake blondes/redheads for a few minutes. It was fun. Didn't get her number but it was a good chat =D