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Started dating someone I am really attracted to and I really don't like the way it changes my personality. I feel like when I'm around a woman I like for too long I become this inauthentic shell of a person. The compromise becomes overwhelming and I begin to fold and become unhappy. I don't hate women, I really don't, but they're exhausting and abysmal. I believe Nietzsche called them Cripples (as they cripple you) and I used to think it meant it was them and not me but as I get older I realize I'm fucking ruined and will die in this dumb fuck need machine, dont have what it takes to endure another person
 
I'm glad my sex drive is relatively low right now. Had a nice fwb thing going for a few months - it's over now, and I'm ready for a break. I get bored enough with even close friends these days, never mind a serious partner who needs tons of attention.
 
Started dating someone I am really attracted to and I really don't like the way it changes my personality. I feel like when I'm around a woman I like for too long I become this inauthentic shell of a person. The compromise becomes overwhelming and I begin to fold and become unhappy. I don't hate women, I really don't, but they're exhausting and abysmal. I believe Nietzsche called them Cripples (as they cripple you) and I used to think it meant it was them and not me but as I get older I realize I'm fucking ruined and will die in this dumb fuck need machine, dont have what it takes to endure another person


Sounds like the problem is you, not the women you like.
 
I think he might know that already:
Started dating someone I am really attracted to and I really don't like the way it changes my personality. I feel like when I'm around a woman I like for too long I become this inauthentic shell of a person. The compromise becomes overwhelming and I begin to fold and become unhappy. I don't hate women, I really don't, but they're exhausting and abysmal. I believe Nietzsche called them Cripples (as they cripple you) and I used to think it meant it was them and not me but as I get older I realize I'm fucking ruined and will die in this dumb fuck need machine, dont have what it takes to endure another person
 
Jordan has the ability to do that, sort of, to those not inoculated by the Cathedral. Those persons can't mentally accept genetic, evolutionary sex differences. Basically Christians without the Christ.
 
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i wonder what his overall opinions are of evolutionary biology, seems like he wouldn't be for social constructs that influence and direct evolution
 
I was seeing a woman and broke it off with her yesterday. We had been on several dates over the course of 6 weeks and enjoyed hanging out with each other. The problem is that I'm too cerebral and I still don't think I know what I want. I would like to find that special person, but going on first/second/third dates is draining both mentally and financially. I think we could have had a nice time together for a while but I couldn't see myself marrying her or staying together for a long period and remaining happy. Too many differences of opinion on things for my liking. I don't want to be part of the MGTOW movement forever either but maybe for a time until I can stabilize my financial situation. I also still don't think I'm 100% over my ex girlfriend. I would say I'm about 85-90% there though. There's a part of me that wants to wait until her situation stabilizes to try again but that could be years down the road.

TL;DR: I'm too inside my head to have a relationship for a long period of time and will die alone.
 
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I was seeing a woman and broke it off with her yesterday. We had been on several dates over the course of 6 weeks and enjoyed hanging out with each other. The problem is that I'm too cerebral and I still don't think I know what I want. I would like to find that special person, but going on first/second/third dates is draining both mentally and financially. I think we could have had a nice time together for a while but I couldn't see myself marrying her or staying together for a long period and remaining happy. Too many differences of opinion on things for my liking. I don't want to be part of the MGTOW movement forever either but maybe for a time until I can stabilize my financial situation. I also still don't think I'm 100% over my ex girlfriend. I would say I'm about 85-90% there though. There's a part of me that wants to wait until her situation stabilizes to try again but that could be years down the road.

TL;DR: I'm too inside my head to have a relationship for a long period of time and will die alone.

I'm not cerebral, you could send send her to me, when she talks and say's opinions, i'll be like ok,yeah,yep, sure, what, WAT ?
 
Do a lot of transgenders wish hopelessly that they were younger as well? I know a male to female and he/she is basically a Lolita teenage Goth weeaboo at 30 years old since beginning hrt.
 
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I saw an older woman for a while. Her body type wasn't one of my porn fantasies or anything, but she was a lot of fun to be around.

She didn't convert me away from the typical "hot young girl" obsession you refer to. That obsession's quite strong for me, and in a way I've given up multiple opportunities for a meaningful relationship in order to keep the "fucking a hot young girl" option open. On the other hand, I still haven't been with someone who's really satisfied me sexually, and it's reasonable to hold on to at least that expectation.

Anyway, I understand the desire to subvert the natural order and achieve eternal youth, and I'd probably be open to a twisted future dystopia scenario where that's possible, but given today's reality, yeah your friend sounds delusional.

edit: I was replying to your original massive post before you removed it lol
 
Do a lot of transgenders wish hopelessly that they were younger as well? I know a male to female and he/she is basically a Lolita teenage Goth weeaboo at 30 years old since beginning hrt.

Probably more that dress up culture (crossdressing, lolita, cosplay, goth, visual kei etc) naturally appeals to people who want to look like something they're not and so trans people would be included in that.
 
Lol sorry @zabu of nΩd my original felt too exposed and personal. And I get it, I'd love to fuck a young dude too, but that's sorta part of my point. Being a woman is not just being young and hot, or dressing up and painting your face, and the transgender idea of what they want to be is flawed.

I'm going to borrow from my original post because I made a point I feel is very relevant: many women feel pressured to wear makeup and dress a certain way their whole lives, and when they finally get the courage to face the world barefaced, it's a triumph. When they finally stop giving a shit about appearing younger and embrace age, wisdom triumphs over shallowness.

Why is it that so many transgenders don't just want to change gender, they want to be fuckable? It's borderline sexist to tie all the experiences of a woman to the importance of getting laid. I think the best women in the world, who really do the gender proud, are those who could earn the bread on their own and don't need to be fuckable to survive. Those who don't need sex or love even, allowing focus on more important endeavors.

We've come too far in women's rights for a dude to say 'hey I want to be a woman I've totally always been a woman' for the experience of getting fucked while someone else pays the bills.

Probably more that dress up culture (crossdressing, lolita, cosplay, goth, visual kei etc) naturally appeals to people who want to look like something they're not and so trans people would be included in that.

I removed my original post, but he/she made a new facebook and is lying about age on it by 10 years. It's been a weird experience as it is with this person, I knew the guy when he was a totally dudely dude like a decade ago and I guess it got me off on a tangent.

A tangent I feel is relevant, because I've yet to meet a mtf transgender who just wanted to be a normal chick who hates her boob's and doesn't feel like shaving or wearing makeup all the time. See above.

Male to female I've never met but they seem more legit.
 
Probably because transgender mtf's still have a Y-chromosome and as a result still have a stronger-than-female impulse to fuck or be fucked by everything, even after surgery and hrt. It's not sexist, it's just biology. Same reason gay men can easily have hundreds of partners while lesbians tend to have the fewest sexual experiences of the main four categories. Social consciousness and identity and all that shit only gets you so far.

EDIT: Anyways, the person you're describing sounds like a 4channer that fell for the trap meme, and being unable to find his own goth lolita weeaboo waifu gf, tries desperately to live that vicariously through the hot young studly weeaboos pounding >her boipucci every night.
 
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