Males and Females
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The Ozzman
Melted by feels
It sound like this guy I know. He meets a girl and he's ready to move in with her three months later. He met this one girl at a club and was ready to propose at 4 months. I talked him out of that and she ended up playing mind games with him and they broke up, but whatever. He likea da kids and can't seem to date anyone above the age of 21.
Why would anyone date anyone older than 21? We're all used up bags of loose skin with floppy labia and children and baggage!
Death Aflame
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we've been seeing each other since november. by the time we move in together in september it will have been 10 months.
The Emptier
t3h b3aSt0rZ
I've finally met the exact male equivalent of me. He used to be fat and has an annoying complex about it, likes to talk about pooping, loves 80s new wave music and dancing to techno to an unhealthy degree, likes space in relationships, and thinks it's funny to take pictures of himself eating.
Have you ever found someone like that? It's WEIRD!
Have you ever found someone like that? It's WEIRD!
The Emptier
t3h b3aSt0rZ
unknown
fuck ftagn
I think the 13 inch height difference ensures both are impossible. I'd just feel so bad about picking on someone so much shorter.
voilenoir
Nicole
That's so fast! But I guess you never know. Plus I am sure no on here will actually be able to convince you how bad of an idea it is. But when you guys live together and realize you shouldn't have- we will be here for you! And hell if it all works out, cheers! How old are you and her? Were you friends prior?
Id like to find the male equivalent to myself....
The Emptier
t3h b3aSt0rZ
maybe it'll work out for them!
The Emptier, I'm just under 5'5. It was a (bad) joke, I'm actually the one who's 13 inches shorter.
The Emptier, I'm just under 5'5. It was a (bad) joke, I'm actually the one who's 13 inches shorter.
The Emptier
t3h b3aSt0rZ
Okay...I was really intrigued to see a super tall asian woman, or a ridiculously tiny manbaby
That's definitely too soon.
I'm not sure how that makes either of those impossible.
Sex with a big height difference is really awkward and I cannot deliver the stone to the forehead death blow if I can't reach
Master_Yoda77
Juggalo
So what is the best approach to initially talking to girls> I've drunk and I've got my eyes set on a few girls that I'd love to bone. I've sent them some bullshit but I don't know if it is going to work.
Death Aflame
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I appreciate the gloomy outlooks on my moving in with my gf. Thanks guys!
It sounds to me like some of you have been burned moving in with your significant others before. Care to elaborate? (I know Zeph went through a messy break-up a couple of months ago with his gf that he was living with).
My thoughts: I don't think the amount of time together is necessarily a good measure of whether moving in is going to work out or not. It's different from relationship to relationship and a whole host of other factors.
For instance, if I were younger, say 18, 19, I would say it is definitely too soon to move in together. But She's 29 and I am 24, turning 25 next month and I think we both have a pretty strong sense of ourselves, which has lead to us making this decision. We are also pretty much the same person, and practically live together now in my small basement apartment in downtown Toronto. She loves sports, french new wave films, and talking about how batshit insane Slavoj Zizek is. We also enjoy having our own space.
I echo krampus' sentiments that it is a weird feeling being with someone who is so similar, and seemingly such a perfect match. But as time goes on it goes from weird to feeling right, and easy. There's no posturing, we are just ourselves around each other and it is working out extremely well.
That said, I am realistic. I do know the risks involved if the relationship doesn't work out are there (the break-up will be messy in a situation where we live together), but I'd be lying if I didn't think that this is going to work out at this point.
It sounds to me like some of you have been burned moving in with your significant others before. Care to elaborate? (I know Zeph went through a messy break-up a couple of months ago with his gf that he was living with).
My thoughts: I don't think the amount of time together is necessarily a good measure of whether moving in is going to work out or not. It's different from relationship to relationship and a whole host of other factors.
For instance, if I were younger, say 18, 19, I would say it is definitely too soon to move in together. But She's 29 and I am 24, turning 25 next month and I think we both have a pretty strong sense of ourselves, which has lead to us making this decision. We are also pretty much the same person, and practically live together now in my small basement apartment in downtown Toronto. She loves sports, french new wave films, and talking about how batshit insane Slavoj Zizek is. We also enjoy having our own space.
I echo krampus' sentiments that it is a weird feeling being with someone who is so similar, and seemingly such a perfect match. But as time goes on it goes from weird to feeling right, and easy. There's no posturing, we are just ourselves around each other and it is working out extremely well.
That said, I am realistic. I do know the risks involved if the relationship doesn't work out are there (the break-up will be messy in a situation where we live together), but I'd be lying if I didn't think that this is going to work out at this point.
King Richard
Hello there
I dated Ashley for 8 months, nearly 4 of which we were apart (this was around the time I got out of the Marine Corps). She moved to Indiana to live with me, and we lived together ever since then up until last August when we had planned to move to Hawaii. So that's 6+ years. Obviously we're not together right now, which is still in the midst of being resolved, but we did just fine (and possibly will be in the near future).
It's not about the timing or necessarily age, it's about the compatibility, maturity, and ability to adapt to new environments. You won't know more about her in year two than you would in month six if you never lived together in the first place. If for some reason shit doesn't work out after you move in together, so be it. It is indeed a risk, but it's totally worth a shot imo.
Don't listen to these other yahoos, they don't know what they're talking about. Good luck bro!
It's not about the timing or necessarily age, it's about the compatibility, maturity, and ability to adapt to new environments. You won't know more about her in year two than you would in month six if you never lived together in the first place. If for some reason shit doesn't work out after you move in together, so be it. It is indeed a risk, but it's totally worth a shot imo.
Don't listen to these other yahoos, they don't know what they're talking about. Good luck bro!
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