Males and Females

In Rockhampton in Queensland and have been travelling around alot in the recent week but looks like I'll be here over the weekend. There are two nightclubs and a few pubs, apparently there are alot of backpackers here. I'm not sure how the fuck I'm going to pickup with no wingman.
 
I'm finding it odd that I was having more success on POF than OKC, nothing but scummy Hills Have Eyes-esque chicks messaging me on OKC.
 
I'm doing the quickmatch thing and I've been giving every girl 1/5 stars, just to be an asshole. Fucking whores.

I did stumble upon a complete slut on there. She has pictures of her nearly naked showing off her large boobs. She talks about how she loves to have sex and how she can take 13 inch penises. I thought about messaging her just to call her a whore and posting some Abigail/Barbatos lyrics.
 
I have way more luck on OkCupid than plenty of fish. In the UK, the POF users are chavs. In other words girls like this:

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But on OKcupid they're like this:
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In Rockhampton in Queensland and have been travelling around alot in the recent week but looks like I'll be here over the weekend. There are two nightclubs and a few pubs, apparently there are alot of backpackers here. I'm not sure how the fuck I'm going to pickup with no wingman.
I've never tried picking up with a wingman. I'm always solo. You can do it! :lol: What does having a wingman do and teach you? Other than the obvious introduction accomplishment "Yeah, this guy here just levitated over the Niagra Falls"(I know someone here gets that reference. :D).
 
Not so much, but it helps a little especially when you're approaching a group of girls. Most girls are in groups of four or five.

It's not just that though, all of my colleagues are above 45 and have their own families and kids. I'm the only retard below 25 alone in these cities (I would've been in 5 cities come next week), been spending alot of time on my own actually.
 
I browsed POF tonight and ick. From a design standpoint, it looks like it's not even a legit website, like the kind of thing you get when you type .com when it should have been .net. It's just fugly. And the girls I saw on the first page or two weren't any better. Maybe it's a regional thing, but there's no shortage of pretty girls on OKC here. A lot of artsy and fucked-up types. POF seems like girls who are really square, or who are physically square-shaped. I guess it's good in that it supposedly steers you to the type of people you're compatible with, rather than the way OKC lets you self-select what you want, which does nothing to help out people with bad dating tendencies. I think I will just take some time off from OKC and see if some fresh faces pop up when I come back in the new year. I've been in a rut. A lot of that is just on me for having to work a lot and being too tired to put any thought into it.

I don't know why anyone would use eHarmony with how much they charge for that.
 
I'd imagine that people willing to pay more to find the "right" person are more serious about finding that person, rather than people just willing to take a few seconds to use a free site.
 
Just kicked some girl out of bed. I kind of feel like an asshole but there was no way we could "be together".
 
So I've been down in Boston at my folks' place for almost a week now (it's winter break at UMaine so I'm taking advantage till early January). Hot new girlfriend is going to bus down to visit on Thursday then leave on Saturday.

Since the beginning of December we've been at it, and I mean at it, and it's clear there's some attachment beyond mere fuck-buddy status. I've brought up the subject of "relationship" before and she gave me an honest, indefinite answer. Apparently she's afraid that whatever fucked up nature of her family/past/present/personality she has might be poisonous to any potential relationship we'd have.

Which brings me to my crisis on the broader scale. I'm hoping to be out of Maine by September, off to a grad school somewhere else in this country. This girl is near perfect for me. Has no morals, loves anything that's fucked up. Likes metal, is hot as fuck, you name it. But we're romantically involved to some degree now and when I find out by the end of this Spring where I might end up, should I really get this attached? Fuck. Sex is awesome but it's like a relationship is worth all the more to me. Yet at this stage I know this probably won't be the one yet I want to keep her as much as I can.

Laura?
 
So I was told that my bro's ex girlfriend's friend thinks I'm cute. I find this hard to believe for many reasons: mainly because I'm a monster with back hair and shit.

Anyways, they asked my bro and I to go to a movie with them. I'm hesitant on doing any sort of "double date" thing, nor do I really know if what they have in mind is considered a "date" but I figured I'd go for it. I could use the experience of making talk with women.

The girl is fairly cute though, based on the facebook pics I've seen. How bad could the night be? I'd at least be with my brodude likely watching some shitty fucking movie with two random bitches. Ugh.
 
all the girls in metal just care about what they look like, they have no passion.its sad, bunch of faggy gothy kids
That's not completely true.

So I was told that my bro's ex girlfriend's friend thinks I'm cute. I find this hard to believe for many reasons: mainly because I'm a monster with back hair and shit.

Anyways, they asked my bro and I to go to a movie with them. I'm hesitant on doing any sort of "double date" thing, nor do I really know if what they have in mind is considered a "date" but I figured I'd go for it. I could use the experience of making talk with women.

The girl is fairly cute though, based on the facebook pics I've seen. How bad could the night be? I'd at least be with my brodude likely watching some shitty fucking movie with two random bitches. Ugh.

You should go!
 
I did the stupid thing of trying to pick up the cute bartender when I went to a bar that I was at by myself. I needed social interaction with people under 45 and since the town I was in had a decent nightlife, I thought why not...

Bad mistake, I should've known especially since I used to be a bartender. Bitch got me drunk, gave me a kiss on the cheek then left without saying good bye. Fail. Would've gotten her number but she was driving to Canberra in the new year and I probably won't be back there for awhile.