I browsed POF tonight and ick. From a design standpoint, it looks like it's not even a legit website, like the kind of thing you get when you type .com when it should have been .net. It's just fugly. And the girls I saw on the first page or two weren't any better. Maybe it's a regional thing, but there's no shortage of pretty girls on OKC here. A lot of artsy and fucked-up types. POF seems like girls who are really square, or who are physically square-shaped. I guess it's good in that it supposedly steers you to the type of people you're compatible with, rather than the way OKC lets you self-select what you want, which does nothing to help out people with bad dating tendencies. I think I will just take some time off from OKC and see if some fresh faces pop up when I come back in the new year. I've been in a rut. A lot of that is just on me for having to work a lot and being too tired to put any thought into it.
I don't know why anyone would use eHarmony with how much they charge for that.