Males and Females

My girlfriend is on birth control but she insists I wear a condom. I don't argue against it because I've never had much problem with the things. Sure it doesn't feel quite as good but it helps me last longer.

What?!?!

Why are women so fucking crazy like that? I have a buddy whose WIFE still makes him wear condoms and she's on the pill. And she also REFUSES to give him head. Fuck a bunch of that.
 
Seeing a girl. She doesn't have facebook or anything so it's kind of annoying. I keep feeling like I should text her but I think she's treating me mean to keep me keen, so I don't want to seem like a little excited boy who wants a cuddle.
 
^Why don't you just go to a bar (or bar hoping) alone or not and just meet women in that medium? Why bother with someone so far away unless it's a one night stand.

Because he wants to be friends with women and stuff. :lol:
 
Seriously, you're pulling the "random women at a bar will give you AIDS" line? That's so misleading.
 
^Why don't you just go to a bar (or bar hoping) alone or not and just meet women in that medium? Why bother with someone so far away unless it's a one night stand.

I never can afford to get trashed at a bar, but I guess I strive to look for something more in a relationship than just hook ups. I associate bars (especially clubs) with girls that aren't worthy of dating, let alone a simple conversation.
 
I never can afford to get trashed at a bar, but I guess I strive to look for something more in a relationship than just hook ups. I associate bars (especially clubs) with girls that aren't worthy of dating, let alone a simple conversation.

You need to learn the ways of bar hopping my friend. You never get trashed at the bar, you get trashed before you go out and only get an occasional drink at the bar to maintain your buzz.
 
I never can afford to get trashed at a bar, but I guess I strive to look for something more in a relationship than just hook ups. I associate bars (especially clubs) with girls that aren't worthy of dating, let alone a simple conversation.

I agree with you, slightly. Then why don't you use another medium that you find interesting where there will definitely be girls i.e. gym, concerts, etc. My point is go somewhere where social interaction is commonplace where it would be easier to initiate a conversation with a girl rather than just approaching some random good looking female at walmart. Even though I have met a few girls from walmart before some were cashiers others were customers.
 
Yeah, my problem is that I never initiate any conversations aside from a friendly "Hello" and chit chat with girls in class. I know the problem is my fault, but I can't say that I really care that much either.
 
Dating an asexual chick - interesting not having the pressure of sex interfering with things as it normally would. Mixed relationships like this are an odd bag, but we get on great and have been pretty open with communicating about it all.
 
Yeah, my problem is that I never initiate any conversations aside from a friendly "Hello" and chit chat with girls in class. I know the problem is my fault, but I can't say that I really care that much either.

I'm pretty sure you'll start caring sooner or later, since you're most likely a slave to your hormones/instinct like the rest of us. Just remember that you have a lot more opportunities while you're in college, and once you're out you may have to lower your standards big time (incl. having to rely on bars) if you don't wanna be forever alone.

Literally the single biggest regret of my life so far is not having worked on my social skills / game more while i was still in school. Just hoping you don't end up the same way bro.
 
zabu of nΩd;10227000 said:
I'm pretty sure you'll start caring sooner or later, since you're most likely a slave to your hormones/instinct like the rest of us. Just remember that you have a lot more opportunities while you're in college, and once you're out you may have to lower your standards big time

Gotta love being an academic. I'll be hanging around universities for the rest of my life.

Speaking of which, it was over 80 degrees here yesterday. So many pretty girls in pretty dresses strolling about the campus. It was a delight.