Big time drama with the chick lately. But it turns out that we are actually dating now (as opposed to the other thing where we would hang out and just "happen" to get frisky with each other.) I laid down the law with her and said that we've been hanging out long enough to the point where I expect a certain kind of conduct from her. And I said that if she wasn't down with this then I would neither hang out nor communicate with her at all anymore. I was dead serious and basically ended things with her, because I was basically at the end of my rope with her. So she didn't take that very well and mobbed up to my house and asked me if I wanted to have a real thing with her and that she can't stand not seeing me and she's starting to get jealous and blah blah blah. So yeah, I guess we're actually a thing now...
Lesson #1: The threat of unavailability and other options is a strong motivator.
Lesson #2: Early 20s chicks are tough nuts to crack.