Males and Females

[Dak]

Dakryn, this is all a bit personal and inappropriate, but in with the spirit of the forum, do you find your lusts and fantasies to be truly satiated within the monogamous relationship with your spouse?

Define satiated. I get laid at least once daily, and I have to deal with a very low amount of drama. Whenever I do see a female that I do find attractive, I remember all the typical bullshit baggage and drama that (at least westernized) women bring to the table and insta-mental-boner-loss.

However, in reference to that thing aug posted, there was no mental boner to lose.

Do have rows with her and is the relationship something that just gels out of sheer love or do you have to tactfully manipulate the situation constantly to remain happy with each other?

We have disagreements at times but not often, and it's never devolved into shouting. Tact is always a best policy. I made it clear at the beginning of the relationship that I was making the final decision all on things (unless delegated), and it has smoothed things out tremendously. Does that mean I never made a midnight run for a random craving during pregnancies, etc? No. "Wearing the pants" doesn't require one to be a douche.

 

[crimsonfloyd]

You should have become friends with benefits

Tried that. It actually resulted in some great impersonal sex at the start, but then she complained that our sex wasn't "affectionate" enough. And then it was just months of really bad, boring sex.

 

[V.V.V.V.V.]

I made it clear at the beginning of the relationship that I was making the final decision all on things (unless delegated)

 

[crimsonfloyd]

this is what a healthy, adult, female's ass should look like

That's a load of bullshit. You never see a woman that fat in a hunter gatherer society. That woman is not "healthy".

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

Seriously Dak, WTF?

 

[Vimana]

That's a load of bullshit. You never see a woman that fat in a hunter gatherer society. That woman is not "healthy".

This. We evolved as hunters and distance-runners. 30,000 years ago they'd say "let the neanderthals have her."

Hm. Maybe that's how we non-Africans got neanderthal blood?

 

[Satanstoenail]

Not monoxide_child, she probably has BUNS OF STEEL and would offend his delicate sensibilities.

Goddamn it, look what you went and did. I'm going to have to put m_c on ignore if I'm subjected to the pics of that strangled elephant one more time.

 

[Manic Ferocity]

So me and my girlfriend have finally split up. We ended up moving to Kent, Ohio together and it turned out to be a complete disaster. I couldn't find work and started drinking heavily as a result. On top of that, I have a very bad temper and, while drinking heavily last week I said some of the worst possible things I've ever said to someone. The next morning, I made the decision to move out. I figured that I wasn't stable enough to be living with someone and found it to be the best and most pragmatic decision to move out. We hadn't even been living together a month.

Since I am still on the lease and currently don't have a job, I have put her in a pretty tough spot. Earlier tonight she went to a grad-school orientation meeting. I texted her around 9:00 asking her if it was over and she said "no" to which I replied "sorry, I'll leave you alone." She replied with "k". I later saw her on Facebook which I found odd because we didn't have internet at our apartment. I asked her if there was anything wrong and she told me to change our relationship status on Facebook. We had already decided to take a hiatus in our relationship so this didn't come as a surprise but I found it odd that she wouldn't tell me what she was doing. I proceeded to tell her I had changed it and asked her why she was acting this way. All she replied with was "thanks" to which I replied with "Ok well if you aren't willing to discuss it, I'm not going to waste my time." No response.

I'm not sure what this means or how to handle the situation. Earlier on in the day, she was expressing how difficult it was to see the apartment without my stuff in it and how much she missed me so I found it strange that she was choosing to completely ignore me. I have been trying to handle this maturely but she seems to be taking it as a "you don't really care about this break-up" sort of thing. I feel like I made the right decision in moving out but I have still trapped myself into a lose-lose situation. I am relieved to have escaped from the way I treated her but it is still very difficult for me to decide how to go about being on good terms with her. I have chosen not to contact her unless she contacts me first but the confusion of her odd mannerisms a few hours ago has me confused and desperate to know what her deal was. We had been dating for almost two years.

Any advice?

 

[Satanstoenail]

Any advice?

Yes. Leave her the fuck alone!

 

[Manic Ferocity]

Well that's the plan. I guess my question is about why she might be acting that way all of a sudden.

 

[Vimana]

Don't expect her to have it all figured out right away. Fuck if we know.

Goddamn it, look what you went and did. I'm going to have to put m_c on ignore if I'm subjected to the pics of that strangled elephant one more time.

Join the amazing club.

 

[Dak]

Seriously Dak, WTF?

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[SentinelSlain]

Monoxide, In all honesty I like buns of steel style fitness babes and it's a major dent in my self esteem that absolutely none of them would give me a second glance because I'm a skinny boy. I plan on changing that though.


Lol, I'm obsessed with the idea of bumming a hot fitness girl in her buns of steel.

 

[damnromulans]

ObscureInfinity, breaking up is not a party. You have to accept "bad guy" credit and take all blame since you apparently can't control yourself and were verbally abusive to your girlfriend because you are a drunk with poor self-control. You also took the initiative to move out. It's all on you. Fuck off and let her get over the breakup without interfering.

much better

 

[SentinelSlain]

I'm still not into japanese girls.

 

[damnromulans]

None of those girls are Japanese

 

[monoxide_child]

That's a load of bullshit. You never see a woman that fat in a hunter gatherer society. That woman is not "healthy".

okay, stop with the anorexia/female-body-builder bullshit

there's a a really big difference between whooty models like Marcy Diamond/Amber Priddy/London Andrews/Virgo Peridot/Remy Lacroix/Kalifornia and the unhealthy huge lard-ass girls that you'll find here
http://www.supersizedbombshells.com/main.html
http://www.bighotbombshells.com/main.html

the girls i named are sexy
the links i posted are nasty

 

[King Richard]

ObscureInfinity, breaking up is not a party. You have to accept "bad guy" credit and take all blame since you apparently can't control yourself and were verbally abusive to your girlfriend because you are a drunk with poor self-control. You also took the initiative to move out. It's all on you. Fuck off and let her get over the breakup without interfering.

much better

awwww yeaaahhh! all systems go!

 

[damnromulans]

okay, stop with the anorexia/female-body-builder bullshit

there's a a really big difference between whooty models like Marcy Diamond/Amber Priddy/London Andrews/Virgo Peridot/Remy Lacroix/Kalifornia and the unhealthy huge lard-ass girls that you'll find here
http://www.supersizedbombshells.com/main.html
http://www.bighotbombshells.com/main.html

the girls i named are sexy
the links i posted are nasty

Do you know what anorexia is? It's a serious mental illness that kills people. The cutoff is a BMI of 17.5 or lower, which is not the same as being athletic, lean, slender or "under 150 pounds."

Quit throwing "anorexic" around.

 

[monoxide_child]

Yes. Leave her the fuck alone!

this would be my advice

Monoxide, In all honesty I like buns of steel style fitness babes and it's a major dent in my self esteem that absolutely none of them would give me a second glance because I'm a skinny boy. I plan on changing that though.


Lol, I'm obsessed with the idea of bumming a hot fitness girl in her buns of steel.

since you're "skinny" you'd be able to get laid really fast if you were willing to fuck a squishy/jiggly girl that weighs more than you, seriously, girls are very weight-conscious, if it's obvious to her that she weighs more than you, and you pretend she's sexy, she'll be all over you, all you gotta do is say the word "voluptuous"

ObscureInfinity, Fuck off and let her get over the breakup without interfering.

much better

@ Obscure Infinity
she's gonna need time to get over you, that's not gonna happen unless you are completely totally removed from her life, what you really need to do is just simply go an entire few weeks (or maybe even a few months) without any type of communication at all whatsoever, no phone calls, no texting (maybe even change your number) no facebook, no e-mails, nothing at all

@ everyone else
what the fucking hell is up with all the non-asian males wanting to fuck asian girls??
i don't get it, i seriously don't get it
i personally prefer the definitively-caucazoid-nose-shape