tl;dr: I got this older chicks number after convincing her.
Alright so I decided to make another OkC account. I've had it up for about almost five days now and I've already received 10x as many responses than I did in two months the last time. Kind of weird actually. Not so surprisingly, every single chick I tried contacting last time (a year ago) are
still on this motherfucker and are single. I messaged them all again just for shits. We'll see if they decided to stop being so goddamn picky about stupid shit.
Anyway, that Indian chick I posted the other day I met through OkC. We're still talking. Yesterday I started talking to this half-Korean chick and she seems very interested. I already got her phone number and plan on calling her later. I'm interested to hear what you guys think. Here's a pic:
Now, here's the interesting part. She's 7 years older than me. I don't think it's an issue at all, but she apparently did. Here's a few message exchanges on OkC and showing how I lured her in. This shit is good haha.
Her (in response to my initial message):
I would be lying if the 7 year age gap (I'm about to be 34) didn't bother me. That and while I'm not monogamous, I think things might be getting serious with someone I've been talking to. I dig your profile and you seem like a cutie pie but I have to politely decline.
PS: You should get a pic of you close up. You seem like a good looking guy.
My response:
Hey no problems, I respect the honesty even though I disagree. I'm glad you had the common courtesy to at least respond and express your opinion. Good luck with your relationship(s). And thanks for the advice, will do.
Her:
Out of curiosity, what do you disagree with?
Me:
I don't think the age difference is a big deal.
Her:
Are you ready to get settled down right now, marry and have kids?
Me:
Only if we do it in Vegas.
Just kidding obviously. If I find the right person, yes.
Her:
Of course you were kidding. I hadn't asked you.
That's surprising at your age. I don't know many 27 year olds that are ready to settle down.
(insert a few back and forths about maturity and meeting the right person and whatnot)
Now cutting to the end, this is her last message to me on the chat thing after we talked for about an hour:
Her:
I'm going to wander off for a while. Need to get some things done. Mainly refreshing the purple in my hair.
I spotted some blonde hairs. Oh noez!
I will say I'm interested in getting to know you more so feel free to shoot me an e-mail or call me at (insert her #).
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Now, I posted this to prove a couple points, not necessarily to brag.
1) Over-analyzing shit is a waste of time. I knew from the get go she was feeding me BS about her talking to some other dude because she was hesitant on the age difference. I can understand the hesitation, but I didn't accept her false front. I talked to her in our chat about it and she admitted to me that she just used it as an excuse to "let me down softly." I told her I knew that and understood, but I wasn't going to let it keep me from talking to her.
2) Persistence and confidence pays off, like I've been saying for a long time around here. I had nothing to lose and by using my awesome communication and mack skeelz I got her #.
