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Not nerves. I'm on medication that generally makes it difficult to get off, but this issue predates that. It's also a question of not having found the right position or angle or whatever the first time, since I'm still getting used to her body.
 
I have the same problem, which makes longer term arrangements like fuck buddies preferable. I usually get off the 2nd or 3rd time and all times after. I think it's difficult to let myself go fully to the situation with a new partner. It's a mental thing. On the plus side it means I can last for days with a new girl which is good for her, depending on the girl I guess.
 
Yall don't know shit about problems getting off. I've had like four really big orgasms in my life, tops.
 
I don't really care that much about having an orgasm. It's nice, but it's not a big deal, and honestly if I'm around a new girl I'd just as soon not get hit with the wave of sleepiness and fuck-givinglessness that typically hits me after I nut.
 
I think I done fucked up being a 'technical' virgin till I was 22. Pretty sure it kinda ruined some shit for me, mentally and emotionally. Real hard to get off without an element of "nope no sex, just hand stuff. I'm so in charge here."
 
I feel the exact same way. I also get put off by any bullshit like bad breath or body hair. It's really shit.
 
Yep. I've slept with a total of six women in my life. Couldn't orgasm the first time with any of them. The best ones helped me out with some post-coital oral, though.
 
Overwatch said:
Well that sucks. Better make the boyfriend break for one of those hitachi things.
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Nah, it's definitely mainly on me. Never did masturbate much. Got a 40 dollar vibrator recently so hopefully I'll understand my own body a little better, used it once but couldn't get past the "Why am I not orgasming!!!" thought. I've heard that's one of the main problems for women who can't get off, focusing on the goal too much.

Keen advice here, dudes. Make sure you date women who can masturbate to completion.
 
waif said:
Then on Saturday I'm having dinner with this couple and after dinner we're probably gonna go back to their place and I'm gonna bang the girl..
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So this happened. It was cool. The guy pretty much just watched me rail his girl for like an hour. It wasn't really that awkward. Didn't finish, but she came like 5 times. The sex was maybe 6/10. Girl sucks a mean dick, though, she got all the way to the balls.
 
At one point she sucked his dick a bit while I was hitting it from behind, but otherwise he just watched with his clothes on. Afterwards we shook hands and they both thanked me.
 
Been talking to a 38 year old woman I see regularly at goth nights. She's a nice person and seems interested in me, but she gets stupid drunk every time I see her which is kind of a turn off. I made out with her last time I was there and she was a horrible kisser. Whatever, she's cute as fuck otherwise so I plan on sticking it out.
 
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