Are you really going to start being a complete idiot again? Everything you just said is just really stupid, and now it's just annoying.
This is a rediculous statement if morality is relative because then everyone would be able to say pretty much the same thing. No one is going to make a whole set of rules for themselves and then live in constant affront to their own relative beliefs.
It is pretty obvious that one person's moral standards can be more rigorous than another person's moral standards. If you don't see this, then you're just not qualified to be having this discussion.
Here's a completely obvious example. One person drinks copious amounts of alcohol because he sees nothing wrong with it. Another person abstains from drinking alcohol altogether because he finds a problem with drinking alcohol and putting such things in your body. Do you really think saying that the latter has a more rigorous moral standard is ridiculous? By the way, it's spelled RIDICULOUS, not REDICULOUS. There is not one single 'e' in the entire word. Your finger shouldn't touch that key. People would obviously not say the same thing. Some people believe that moral standards are not rigorous, so why would they say that they have rigorous moral standards? If somebody believes that it's okay to punch babies in the face if they throw up on them, do you think this person believes that he has rigorous moral standards in comparison to other people?
Based on my observations of the way that people behave in their personal lives from what they post on this forum, I think it's safe for me to conclude that I have more rigorous moral standards for myself than the majority of people here, and I'm pretty sure most other posters here have acknowledged this by mocking my personally conservative standards. Now try again to explain how this is a 'rediculous' thing to say if morality is relative. I'll address your last sentence below.
You said you might do something that even goes against your own definition of morality. Why would you go against rules you have complete control of?
Everybody does this at some point in their lives. Well, a lot of people anyway. Everybody has lapses and does things that they regret and wish they hadn't done. Everybody does things that they feel are wrong despite feeling that they're wrong. To claim otherwise is ridiculous. You would have to assume that people are perfect in order to see some cognitive dissonance between believing that something is wrong and not always being able to hold yourself to your own standards. God, I can't believe I'm even explaining this. This is so intuitively obvious that I feel annoyed that I have to lay this out for you.
Do you really not get this? You may have complete control of what you believe is right and wrong, but that does not mean at all that you have complete control over whether you will ever do something that you think is wrong. Somebody who believes that smoking weed is wrong could have a moment of weakness in a state of depression at some point in their lives and someone could come along at the opportune time and offer them pot, and they take it, knowing that it's 'wrong.' This may be the only time he ever does it, and he still did it and he still thought it was wrong to do it. Or he could become addicted to it and his body could become dependent on it and he couldn't stop himself from doing something that he believes is wrong for the rest of his life. This doesn't mean he suddenly thinks it's right now that he does it, or that it was temporarily right the one time that he did do it.
You could just change the rule, then you aren't going against it.
Then it wouldn't be a rule.
Of course you can change your outlook on things, but if you change your belief that smoking pot is wrong in order to smoke pot instead of because you actually no longer believe that smoking pot is wrong, then you're not really changing your belief, you're just deceiving yourself.
It does. You just admitted it, and to argue the opposite is rediculous.
You're taking my statement out of context like a stupid jackass, as usual. If you actually read my entire sentence, you would see that I was not denying the natural 'free reign' that relative morality grants us. In fact, I was saying that in order to support what I was saying after it, so you're being completely ridiculous.
if we make the laws then why do we make them for any other reason than for the fact that without rules for interaction society can't function
We're not talking about laws. We're talking about morality. Yes, some laws are based on morality, but to insinuate that because a sense of morality sometimes shapes laws that that morality which shaped that law must be objective is assinine. The reason for making laws has nothing to do with what we're discussing.
Objective Morals, by a general definition imo, are rules for human interaction that are a constant for a successful society (success being determined by peace and freedom to pursue morally agreeable interests).
As far as having an opinion ("imo") about "Objective Morals," I hope you can see for yourself how stupid that is. You don't really get to have an opinion about what something objectively means. If something is objective, then it can be determined to be such through observation in such a way that no other conclusion could possibly make sense given the data. That 2 + 3 = 5 is objectively deduced, given the data. If you have two, and you have 3, and you add two to three, you can't have anything other than five. On the other hand, you can arrive at several different conclusions regarding moral decisions.
Now, onward and upward.
There are two problems with your "opinion" about what "Objective Morals" is. The first one is that you assume that morality should be determined by the success of a society. There is nothing intuitive in the assumption that morality's role should be toward the furtherance of society (that is, if it was objective). The second problem with your "opinion" is that you must assume that there is an objective standard for determining success in a society. There quite obviously isn't. For some people, allowing homosexuals to marry and women to have an abortion is an egregious blow to the moral fabric of society. To others, the opposite is as ardently suggested. So which one determines "success?" Can we tell objectively which one is successful? Can we objectively determine what constitutes, definitively, success?
Here is where we differ. I largely agree with your view on morality. My conception of morality, loosely stated, is a set of standards which best contribute to the greater well-being and equity of people as much as is reasonably possible. But this is not objective. Does it being subjective cause it somehow to magically lose its validity? Of course not. The best idea should be implemented; that idea does not have to have some kind of magical authority, it just needs to make sense.