at first opeth - to bid you farewell, when the people come in.
after that one tori amos - winter.
as a prelude to the postludium requiem by lacrimosa.
and, of course, in the end: Tom Waits - Time.
with this funky combination i'm quite sure to have most of the people crying even if they don't know me...
oh, by the way, it's really interesting how much songs (or music in general) change when you hear them at a funeral.
anyone in here ever heard chopin's trauermarsch (funeral march) AT A FUNERAL? that's the point when music really becomes INTENSE. I never, ever heard anything that made me come even close to the pure mourning i felt then...
i daresay i'm happy it is that way but still it's unbelievable. i (as most of us in here) knew that one for years, i played it, i just KNEW it goddamit and suddenly, in that situation, it was the i cannot find words for that. it was BIGGER, deeper and
well, err, nevermind, have a try (or better don't) and don't forget singing the funny ones as swell
mehothra (in a pondering mood)