so check out this nonsense.
went to AT&T today, one of their "service center" locations to see what's up with my phone. I noticed in the last day or so that it's always searching for a signal, so I figured that's what's draining the battery.
So the chick behind the counter kind of hushes in my ear ... our 3G service has been down for almost 2 months!!! ... and my phone was set to a "2G and 3G" mode meaning if 3G signal is not found it tries to connect all the time, BUT will use 2G if placing a call or trying to access the net. AWESOME! bah!
on top of that ... 3 cell towers were knocked out in my nabe last week because of the freaking tornado.
well at least I know it's not the phone/battery.