^ Good for you!
http://dl.dropbox.com/u/285689/Music/Memnoir - The One.mp3
Can't remember how I staged them, but this had:
-R-DeEsser
-Millennia Origin (EQ and comp)
-Rvox
-1176 (hardware)
-L1
-Saturation (can't remember if it was Trash or Decapitator... one of em, both are good!)
Sweet spot on the Rvox is generally around 6dB, on the Millennia I'm usually between 3 and 7dB, the 1176 anywhere from 10 to 20dB and on the L1 usually around 3 to 6dB. This usually gives enough juice to bring the vocal to the front and shove the airyness all over your face (provided you've dimed the highs going into this compression chain). The key here is to really control the highs using the DeEsser so nothing up there is pokey and the vocal sounds blanketed. After this you just crank the highs back up on a good EQ (like the Millennia, or Nebula's CLQ) and going into the compression, which will subdue and round-off the vocal, you will have an effect where there is a layer of airyness over the whole vocal.