heh, well, let me take over the hijacking...
Yes, like I said, adoption is demonized, too. I heard people say hurtful things about a friend I used to work with who placed her child for adoption, and have heard general comments as well. It's like you can't win for fucking losing with some people. Fuck 'em, Su; we know you're the better person.
I'm sure there are some women out there who are, as you said, heartless bitches, but I think at least some of them are closer to saints than most of us will ever be. Kudos to them for making the hard choice and giving those children and adoptive families a little joy.
Time for the Birthmothers Kick Ass world tour??
Shaye