greenaxer
Knight of the Templar
Jaen said:what i dont get are the chicks that go for complete assholes and take nice guys for granted.
Dude, I don't know how many times I've gotten that shit, and it absolutely sucks. I have this female friend who is absolutely amazing (pretty, smart, focused), the complete opposite (personality wise) of many women around here with the typical 'loose, 24 hour party-driven mentality.' But she said she doesn't want to even date because she's focused only on school. That's great for her, but it sucks when someone so good is unattainable.
Jax said:That said, have faith; most women get over the 'bad boy' thing by the time they hit their late 20s/early 30s. Bad boys may be fun, but they make crappy husbands/fathers, & eventually women figure that out.
This is true, but it means decent guys have to wait for this process to play itself out, kinda like getting left behind amidst all the movement. I'm coming to realize it's true that nice guys tend to finish last.