it doesn't matter if she has the same personality as you but it's more important to find common grounds together.
Like some girls want to move from one guy to another, they cannot spend more than five months with the same guy. I for one want a stable girl who knows what she's doing and do not predict or expect a "deadline" to a relationship. So I cannot match with such girls, like my ex. I too want a girl who has ambitions in life more than "oh shit, no party this weekend, i'm in deep shit now" if u know what i mean. Someone "deep", someone who I can discuss things beyond the "what are we gonna do tonight", know what i mean? we can talk about life and all. Not shallow. I found her, now i have to challenge many things to be together. It's kinda sad how things aren't easy for me, but i feel like i have a serious challenge in life which I love, cause for me, success is my ultimate happiness, and once i succeed in a challenge, i feel fakken great.
but I read all and now I understand 
