That's a great article and 100% true. I don't socialize often because I don't like people asking shit from me or being annoyed by strangers. My tolerance for annoyance really is low due to the internet, and therefore I am easily annoyed at just the slightest inconvenience. I may not scream and yell and pull out my hair, but it bothers me.
Don't get me wrong, I don't mind doing favors for friends, but I've realized that there are friends who ask too much and friends who are really passive aggressive dicks. I don't have any friends who are dicks anymore. Everyone has had that one friend who was the dick of the group, always talking shit, always making scenes, etc. I've reached a point in my life that I don't even get near them because they piss me off. My outlook on what constitutes a friend has changed drastically over the years, and if they annoy me often enough, they're no longer friends.
I tend to not hang out with people who aren't close friends. Even acquaintances bore me because I've already decided why they're acquaintances and not friends. Fewer friends means less shit you have to put up with, quite honestly. Quality over quantity. If I do something that annoys someone, I cease doing it. However, for some reason some friends think that because they're friends that everything is allowed...no, just no. I demand a lot from my friends and my friends demand a lot from me, otherwise they wouldn't be friends. Having a tolerance to annoyance isn't one of my demands because if you're annoying I don't wanna be around you.
That said, friends who are family (which are usually the closest friends) and friends from school are allowed more leeway just due to the history. I hadn't seen a high school friend (one of the only friends I had growing up) since high school and he just came to visit here in Venice, and we picked up right where we left off. It was great. That is true friendship, and like romantic relationships, they should feel natural and not forced.