anonymousnick2001 said:
Whew...what a thread.
For the record, GoD, I agree with you. Yes, read that again. There is a great difference between what you said and what that dipshit Blaphbee said. Namely, what you said had depth and was not an attempt to offend. It was simply misinterpreted.
My $0.02 is that there should be no obligation for you to respect DBD if you didn't like his music. There's no reason to respect anyone you don't wish to respect. We as people cannot judge other peoples' lives. We cannot know everything about another person. Our judgment is not transcendental or divine. We cannot deem people worthy or not worthy of respect. IMO, that is for God to handle. The lives and influence of others goes beyond ourselves and they cannot be evaluated.
If DBD's music did or does nothing for you, you have no reason to mourn. I was going to make a point about the need to mourn the loss of an innocent life, but you've covered that base with the explanantion of your philosophy of death's unimportance. Of course, this view seems natural to you. I, with my deeply religious views and Judeo-Christian values, mourn the loss, because I personally believe that although death is part of life, it is not easy for those who are left behind. We miss and wonder and pray that the departed's soul has gone to a better place. That is how I define "human" or "natural." I do fear death, because I'm afraid of no longer existing...but I don't worry myself into a tizzy over it all the time. Not everyone is like that. There is middle ground. I also wish to mention that my condolences go out to the other families who lost people in this tragedy. However, it's unfair for anyone to expect me to deliver the same feeling of loss as I do for DBD because I did not know those families or those others who were lost. I didn't know DBD. I only know what I've heard, and I loved his music and think he had a lot of talent. So that is why I mourn his loss. I enjoyed his music. Had I not enjoyed his music, I'd still be saddened because of the loss of innocent life. He had no ideology which he was advocating. Had the shooter had a motive of toppling the beer-drinking redneck empire in metal, I'd not have respected him any more. He still committed murder. This is hardly a cause worthy of murder. Metal is just not that important in the real world. It's just music. And I mourn the loss because I liked his music.
I do find it slightly unsettling that you have such a dry outlook on life at such a young age. A note of caution: don't make the mistake of thinking your view is superior to anyone else's. It is neither more or less intelligent than my view which I just stated. Your mentioning of strength and weakness leads me to believe that you see yourself as stronger than the supposed weak. This is untrue. I am also aware that you don'tr think all people are equal and disagree with my view, and that's what this is all about. Views. So I apologize if what I just wrote seems like a personal attack. It was just my expression of my view. Again, I'm bothered that what I say will make no difference to you, but I'm sure I'll get over it.
The bottom line is that you're not being nearly as much of asshole as everyone's making you out to be.
Take this from someone who values your opinion a lot. I simply needed to make the point that what people are saying are their own opinions or reflections on the matter. I don't agree with your view, but fuck anyone who says you're not allowed to have it. You had no apparent bad intentions, methinks.
Cheers, Nick. Despite your humanist nature, you aren't blinded with hatred by every extreme and non-humanist viewpoint - instead you're willing to look at what I'm actually saying and react calmly and coherently without abuse. While I've probably said some things in this thread you don't agree with - things that possibly even shock or upset you, you don't feel the need to throw insults my way - you'd rather simply discuss. I appreciate that.
There's a few other people on this board who are similar, in that while they sometimes disagree with me they are able to remain totally civil for the most part, and do actually attempt to grasp
why I believe what I believe and don't try to twist my words or misinterpret them. Rather than simply hating what I believe and reacting violently to it, they form their own logical opposition to anything they disagree with and accept the bits they do agree with. Lots more gets accomplished that way, and I have far more respect for things said by such people than I do for these incoherent anger-fueled insults. I made the mistake of being an unpleasant totally self-assured cunt on these boards once (I said some stuff back then which, yes, I do look back on and cringe about, because I knew even at the time of writing that I wasn't as sure of myself as I made out), and then decided I was lowering myself to the level of those I was condemning, thus I mellowed out and decided to attack things rationally in the future. I've done so in this case too for the most part, but it seems some people just can't get past the violation of certain taboos.
I'll also state that I don't take any offense to your penultimate paragraph, and I'll try to make my views on the subject more clear. While I think believing that you're infallible and omniscient is perilous, I also think that without pride and self-trust you defeat yourself, and with that mentality you'll accomplish nothing. Because of this, the only reasons you stay alive are to either get out of that mentality, or to avoid the death you fear and retain the comfort in knowing you exist. The former is fair enough - you're trying to improve yourself. The latter doesn't apply to anything that I care about, and also goes against some of my values, so it doesn't matter to me if you die.
I believe I'm stronger than many of you are in relation to the values I have. I consider such values more 'objective' than most people's because I believe I take more things into account than most people do. For instance, I fully grasp precisely why moralists/humanists/christians/etc feel what they feel and do what they do (it helps having been a somewhat passionate moralist myself), whereas most of them have little comprehension of my beliefs. Most humanists have always been humanists - the current moral standpoint is one forced upon all of us at an age before we can really judge its usefulness, and people struggle to break free of it. Whereas I see both sides of the coin and have picked one with a lot of thought. People try to explain away my views as being some kind of image thing, or use the "but... you're 16" ad hominem to devalue everything I say, whereas I don't do such things, instead focusing on my 'opponent's' actual views and stating why they aren't beneficial.
"Everyone should have free speech and equal rights, but human death is the ultimate 'bad' and to suggest otherwise is just plain "evil"" is what I feel that most of you are thinking, and it's silly to my mind. Sure, I know it seems like this makes me nothing more than a wannabe efficient machine, but be assured I find beauty in many things. There is no objective definition of 'human' other than perhaps what is natural, and the societies that have work most in harmony with nature have been ones with views far closer to mine than yours. Remember this.
Mr.Toby said:
Just in case a few of you guys forgot, Dime got FUCKING shot about 24 hours ago (or so, I'm unaware cause of the time difference) and you guys are talking shit out of your asses about each other and missing the point completely. Let's talk about the man and how he lived, not how intelligent you are, or how unintelligent the other guy is. Dime owned, let's make it known.
I agree with you, for probably the first time ever.
Talk about fucking Dimebag and co and stfu about me. Of course I'm going to retaliate when I get shitted all over for saying Dimebag's death has no importance to me, particularly when I'm ill and feeling particularly intolerant, but I concur that this discussion is going absolutely nowhere.
I'd also like to add something I forgot to say from an earlier post: If one of my close family died I absolutely wouldn't expect you to show any respect whatsoever, and wouldn't value any respect you did give.
Anywho: Talk about the topic at hand now, or closage is inevitable. Considering you all make such a big deal about it, it's amazing how little a lot of you are focusing on the actual events.