stefan86's offtopic random retard thread - post away!

What am I supposed to talk about with people?
This girl I barely know walked into the same bus as me and after we said "hi, how are you?" she kinda said "so, say something" and that's the hard part.I never know what to say.I asked her what kind of music she likes and then we talked about movies and it was enough to last until the bus station, but what about next time, or someone whom I will be with for longer?
What the fuck do people want to talk about?

tl;dr: How to start a normal conversation about something normal?fast?
 
What am I supposed to talk about with people?
This girl I barely know walked into the same bus as me and after we said "hi, how are you?" she kinda said "so, say something" and that's the hard part.I never know what to say.I asked her what kind of music she likes and then we talked about movies and it was enough to last until the bus station, but what about next time, or someone whom I will be with for longer?
What the fuck do people want to talk about?

tl;dr: How to start a normal conversation about something normal?fast?

that's actually the reason why i'm single :) is pretty much impossible here to find someone with a minimum of culture to have a proper conversation.
 
that's actually the reason why i'm single :) is pretty much impossible here to find someone with a minimum of culture to have a proper conversation.

I think he has a diff problem, he just can't talk.

No matter how limited people might be you still know how to talk to them.
 
I'd say you can always plan ahead, try to remember interesting or funny facts that happen to you that day or the day before, just the way you look at the world. Like for example when I met my gf 1st thing I told her about was how at yesterdays class we were in the studio and the mixing table had an option to group two channels so when you move one lever the other one moves the same while a heart appears in between them, and then I made a joke by asking if it's possible to make an orgy by grouping all the channels at once. Stupid things like that but if you tell them properly they are interesting.

And I had a hole in my shoe on the 1st date so I said hi to her while moving my foot in a way as if the shoe was speaking throw the hole, it's very stupid but it was the right thing to do because she likes stupid jokes too.

Then one day you just stop having to plan, things come up naturally and you realize your gf is the best person to talk to, because you don't have to say anything especially interesting, you can just talk about whatever bullshit you think of haha.