So this is the story. I just got home and I am a bit drunk but I thought about this on my way home.
I rarely go out but today I thought I should. Sadly it was just about what I expected. Im not a very social person so hat is a problem in itself but Im becoming more and more aware that I simply cannot talk to people in bars/clubs because I cant hear what they say.
I have come to believe that its not just about the volume. I have tried and did try again today to talk to people but I cant even make out half of what they are saying. I spoke to one girl who I kind of know and found myself saying "yeah" to what she said even though I didnt quite hear (and thus didnt understand) what she actually said. I tend to not hear as well as ave a hard time to focus on one sound. I just hear alot of stuff all at once.
And on top of this I cant really enjoy the music either. They played "paradise city". A song I know very well but I noticed that in this enviroment it distorted alot in my ears. So much that I amost couldnt enjoy the song itself. I usually have no problems at concerts though (allthough I do use ear plus).
Does anyone else have this kind of problem or know what its called? I am starting to think that its something that can actually be diagnosed. And its a shame, Im not the most social person out there and when Im out I cant hear people so even if I try I cant talk to them very good.