turning down a chick

[Line666]

When a girl goes after me it's a huge turnoff.

With you there man, when they're pouting at you, twirling their hair, looking at you even when you're not talking or staring at your lips right from the get go then it becomes mighty anticlimactic and uninteresting. Cos it's totally not obvious at all what they want and how early they've declared it

But then, I'm not very good at the chasing part so outward attention is usually my calling card, which I find annoying, I guess its because I'm the sum of not a lot of conversation and some really funky dress sense, so I have to settle on bagging them based on their first impressions of me, because the moment most women they find out you're semi-intelligent the game is usually lost.

Erkan, if you don't want to approach, I don't much like it either, then I find you have to have something about your appearance that women can comment on, an interesting piece of jewelery, a hat - an accessory of some kind is great, as aforementioned I get loads of attention cos I dress like a androgynous plonker (to your average male, women would refer to it as "suave" or "in touch with my feminine side" or ask me if I'm gay or something)

 

[GarethSE]

owen you fag <3

 

[Line666]

owen you fag <3

I CANNAE KEEP AH STRAIH SEXYOUALITY MOY LUVVER.

 

[GarethSE]

ewan mcgregor
is he your favourite person or what

 

[updog]

isn't the 2nd official language in Finland Swedish?

Does that mean 1/2 you Finns talk gay?

just kidding man

dude, it's like what I said in another thread a while ago, it's not the language itself, it's the way swedish people pronounce it. GAAAAAAYYYYYYY
























no offense

 

[Line666]

ewan mcgregor
is he your favourite person or what

Does he not make you warm in your favourite place?

 

[updog]

Hey guys, we weren't talking about turning down Ewan McGregor. We all already know it's not possible to turn him down

 

[GarethSE]

id fuck his sexy scottish voice
not him
just his voice

 

[Line666]

id fuck his sexy scottish voice
not him
just his voice

He'd have to give mighty good head for you to be able to fuck just his voice.

 

[Line666]

Besides, like you'd say no:

 

[GarethSE]

point well made good sir

now why arent you on msn i am feeling surreal lets talk

 

[Mesa4x12er]

Erkan, if you don't want to approach, I don't much like it either, then I find you have to have something about your appearance that women can comment on, an interesting piece of jewelery, a hat - an accessory of some kind is great, as aforementioned I get loads of attention cos I dress like a androgynous plonker (to your average male, women would refer to it as "suave" or "in touch with my feminine side" or ask me if I'm gay or something)

Approach and confidence are a huge part of this. That's really how you get the one you want and not just the one paying the attention. Women like confidence. If you act like you're a badass they believe you are a badass. The key is to strike up a conversation without acting like you care much. It's also important that you don't look nervous when you approach. What's to be nervous about anyway? If they aren't into you then they won't be going home with you or hanging out with you... the same result happens if you don't go over there, so fuck it.

Just bullshit with them. Let them know you are interested but at the same time you could take them or leave them. They are used to scared guys and on the other end.. guys that are way too overbearing. Be the confident guy that isn't afraid of them, is interested, but doesn't care one way or the other and they'll be caught off guard. It's at that point they start trying harder to make you interested just because you seem to be immune to them when the other guys aren't. So in essence you turn the tables and make them try to win you over. This my friends is how you attain the unattainable.

 

[Chryst Krispies]

Or you can just learn from the master...

 

[Line666]

Approach and confidence are a huge part of this. That's really how you get the one you want and not just the one paying the attention. Women like confidence. If you act like you're a badass they believe you are a badass. The key is to strike up a conversation without acting like you care much. It's also important that you don't look nervous when you approach. What's to be nervous about anyway? If they aren't into you then they won't be going home with you or hanging out with you... the same result happens if you don't go over there, so fuck it.

Just bullshit with them. Let them know you are interested but at the same time you could take them or leave them. They are used to scared guys and on the other end.. guys that are way too overbearing. Be the confident guy that isn't afraid of them, is interested, but doesn't care one way or the other and they'll be caught off guard. It's at that point they start trying harder to make you interested just because you seem to be immune to them when the other guys aren't. So in essence you turn the tables and make them try to win you over. This my friends is how you attain the unattainable.

I don't like approaching cos of the legwork, doesn't mean I don't do it, because its necessary, but mainly cos I'm a bit of a lazy bastard, not because I'm averse to the idea.

Acting too interested has never been a problem I've been faced with, if anything I'm far too distant and don't really give a shit, I have to fake interest to give them some sort of hope to latch on to, cos if I don't have any they get fobbed off after a while and give up. I see your point though because most guys are too clingy and easy with the compliments, I prefer subtle digs with a few compliments thrown in occassionally just to keep them going.

Active pursuit for me is not giving a shit whilst every other chump tries too hard. My mates hate it because apparently it's "not good game", but it gets results so fuck it

 

[Jackal_Strain]

I've been in a serious relationship for more than 4 years, and since my daughter was born I haven't had a lot of time for going out drinking and partying. Still, it feels really great turning down girls whenever I go out these days. It feels good to know I've still got it.

 

[Metaltastic]

Or you can just learn from the master...




http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qEnU-9jUZG4

Oh my god, that just kept getting better and better lol:

 

[sadistik necrofiend]

There was this chick once who made it quite obvious that she wanted me, but I was like if she wants it bad enough then she can work for it. I wasn't too attracted to her, so I decided if she wanted it bad enough I would take some sex hahaa. So she shows up to this party I was at and then I was going to walk home and she is like i'll give you a ride.

We get to my apt. and I was like well you can come in if you want and I knew she was all excited. She comes in and I put on Argento's Inferno and I decided well shes in here for a reason, but is she willing to make the move cause I aint gonna do it.

So she ended up leaving as I was just watching the movie and waiting for her to make a move. She left and I was like meh, no big deal. I felt a bit bad, but it was one of those things where ya snooze ya lose and this case I didn't felt like I lost anything.

I am married these days and this quite a few years ago. Its a funny story.

 

[SocialNumb]

or just act like a loud asshole. That seems to work as well.

Showing up in a $80,000 BMW dressed like a rock star helps. It's really pitiful.

Drive my S-10 = nothing
Drive my BMW = wet vaginas

Same dude in both cars but somehow looks better in the more expensive one. sad . . . :Smug:

 

[arv_foh]

Here is how you get teh womenz:

1. Buy them lots of drinks
2. Act like you have money even if you don't
3. If the girl isn't all over you by 4 or 5 drinks in move on to another
4. Take home and enjoy
5. DON'T BE A PUSSY

at least this tactic has always worked well for me

 

[sadistik necrofiend]

Being confident is a big important part for sure.

I always tried to avoid spending too much money trying to get a chick, because if it aint working then you be losing a ton of money.

Its all about securing a social meet up and then going in for the goods at the final moment say if your able to get her to your place. That always worked for me. I figured well if I can get a girl to come into my place then the deal is pretty much done, cause they know why they are agreeing to come inside your place. This is about 90% true and has never failed in my attempts.