People have freewill. So, yeah. You can't force someone to love you. Besides, you don't need someone in life to move on(that's a whole other topic). By saying that, in this case; I mean "you" don't have to be in "love" in order to live your life. "The supreme happiness in life is the conviction that we are loved" - Victor Hugo. That is absolutely right. People need to know that they are cared and loved. In datings, it's the hormone "love" we call is what makes the two person want each other so badly, desperately at first times. In this case "love" blinds them. Not the universal one, the hormonal one. (I have to give the explanation since both of them are called love in English, it differs from language to language)... so; because it's a hormone, it starts to fade away when time passes. The main and consistent factors that helps and maintains the relationship are respect and true love. So if you're looking for someone to fall into love with, I can say that is unnecessary. Just start to know someone, start seeing each other, start talking and such... after a while you'll eventually decide if ther other person's way of thinking(the most important), interests, hobbies, your common ways are similiar or not. That decides and builds a good relationship and makes it last longer. Beyond and after that it's all up to you and the other person. That is my advice to you if you want to be in a relationship with someone and hesitate on deciding, about what to do.
