pretty much nothing ive ever read, heard, or witnessed makes me think that getting married and/or having children is in any way a good idea for me. i know it makes a small percentage genuinely happy, a good chunk love their kids/hate their life, another set is secretly miserable, and a bunch of singles long for it while people that have it silently scream "dont do it you fool!" i know people typically vent more than they sing the praises of love and family, but i can tell that shit aint for me. i'd feel like i was fucking drowning.