Wow... we've got a great load of possibilities to choose from...
Some of my choices include:
Lovelorn Rhapsody - Anathema
Brave - Katatonia
It's A Miracle - Roger Waters
In Your Room - Depeche Mode
Your River - My Dying Bride
Some old Nirvana tunes like "Paper Cuts' are depressing, but the more oppresive, detached, bizzare type...
Oh, how could I forget?
The Journey's End - Nightingale
Swano's the man!