I'm so sick of women always wanting the guy to have all sorts of plans and everything. They act like all they have to do in the relationship is just show up for dates (which they are always late for without fail anyway). I don't think they realize how difficult it is to come up with new ideas after some time has passed.
I didn't mean a dating thing. In dating - both should make desicions and stuff. But when a guy asks a girl out for a first time - he should at least know or have any idea where they will go.
Example from my life. The guy tells me:
- I wanna take you out tomorrow.
- Okay.
It wasn't a date for me, as I wanted us to be just friends, but it doesn't matter. I know that he wanted something more. So we meet. I say :
- So, where are we going?
- Weeeell...I don't knoooow. Lets go to the closest movie theatre, see what they're showing today.
- Sure.
We're in the theatre, looking what films they're showing. Staring at posters. Me:
- Well... I can't see anything interesting. Maybe you found something?
- Hhhmmmm.... nooo...
- Ok. So let's go to another theatre?
- Yeah.
We're in the other theatre. Me:
- Hey, I'd like to watch this movie. What do you think?
- Naaah. I've already seen it at home.
Smug
- Ok. Something that cought your eye?
- Weeeell... I don't knoooow.
As a result we've been in 4 (!) movie theatres and 2 (!) play theatres (90% of them were offered by me), just staring at the posters and playbills. As a result - we haven't watched any movie or play. And just walked by city for 3 hours while it was cold like hell. And yes, I'm not going to go with him next time he wants to take me out. Because there's enough of me, a woman, who doesn't want what she wants to stand a guy, who also doesn't know what he wants.
And he's not the firs one. In majority of times - when guys take me out (for a first or second time) - we just walk by the city. Because they can't even offer a fucking plan. A guy should make a desicion, because he usually pays for a girl and he should make a plan that would match with his material abilities. If we're walking and I see a cafe that I'd like to go to - I still don't say it to him, as I'm afraid he might to think that I'm gonna make him pay for me and shit. Maybe I'm wrong. But that's how I think. I swear, I don't need a guy to spend crazy money on me. I tend to pay for myself, even on dates. But goddamn it, if you're taking me out, try to use your brains and imagination.