Why do women earn so much less?

Are men supposed to make all of the dating decisions or something? Why is the man taking the woman out? Can't a woman take a man out and decide where to go on a date?

Or do you want the best of both worlds?
Knights are dying out...
 
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And that was a bad point about salaries for movie stars. The top grossing films are consistently action movies or comedies carried by big stars. Pitt, Cruise, Clooney, Will Smith get paid a ton because their movies make a ton more money than some Julia Roberts sobfest. Sandler and Carrey make a ton because they are funny, and there aren't any funny women that can carry a film.

I'm so sick of women always wanting the guy to have all sorts of plans and everything. They act like all they have to do in the relationship is just show up for dates (which they are always late for without fail anyway). I don't think they realize how difficult it is to come up with new ideas after some time has passed.
 
I'm so sick of women always wanting the guy to have all sorts of plans and everything. They act like all they have to do in the relationship is just show up for dates (which they are always late for without fail anyway). I don't think they realize how difficult it is to come up with new ideas after some time has passed.
I didn't mean a dating thing. In dating - both should make desicions and stuff. But when a guy asks a girl out for a first time - he should at least know or have any idea where they will go.
Example from my life. The guy tells me:
- I wanna take you out tomorrow.
- Okay.

It wasn't a date for me, as I wanted us to be just friends, but it doesn't matter. I know that he wanted something more. So we meet. I say :
- So, where are we going?
- Weeeell...I don't knoooow. Lets go to the closest movie theatre, see what they're showing today.
- Sure.

We're in the theatre, looking what films they're showing. Staring at posters. Me:
- Well... I can't see anything interesting. Maybe you found something?
- Hhhmmmm.... nooo...
- Ok. So let's go to another theatre?
- Yeah.

We're in the other theatre. Me:
- Hey, I'd like to watch this movie. What do you think?
- Naaah. I've already seen it at home. :)Smug:)
- Ok. Something that cought your eye?
- Weeeell... I don't knoooow.

As a result we've been in 4 (!) movie theatres and 2 (!) play theatres (90% of them were offered by me), just staring at the posters and playbills. As a result - we haven't watched any movie or play. And just walked by city for 3 hours while it was cold like hell. And yes, I'm not going to go with him next time he wants to take me out. Because there's enough of me, a woman, who doesn't want what she wants to stand a guy, who also doesn't know what he wants.
And he's not the firs one. In majority of times - when guys take me out (for a first or second time) - we just walk by the city. Because they can't even offer a fucking plan. A guy should make a desicion, because he usually pays for a girl and he should make a plan that would match with his material abilities. If we're walking and I see a cafe that I'd like to go to - I still don't say it to him, as I'm afraid he might to think that I'm gonna make him pay for me and shit. Maybe I'm wrong. But that's how I think. I swear, I don't need a guy to spend crazy money on me. I tend to pay for myself, even on dates. But goddamn it, if you're taking me out, try to use your brains and imagination.
 
I do. Seriously.
But right now I'm talking about situations when a guy takes me out.
 
Are men supposed to make all of the dating decisions or something?

I didn't say that. I said if you want to take a woman out most of us appreciate you having a mind and personality of your own. How can we tell if we like you if all you're doing is trying to do everything right so you can laid as quickly as possible?

Why is the man taking the woman out?

In most cases to get laid.

Can't a woman take a man out and decide where to go on a date?

Sure. I didn't say it can't be that way. When I go out with my boyfriend I often tell him what I'd like to do, but we've been together for over 2 years and neither of us is wondering if we're going to get lucky at the end of the evening. The problem with a lot of guys is that it's a habitual problem of having no idea what to do. Funny, I thought you GUYS would appreciate a little heads up in the dating department. Yes, it is taking a chance to be yourself, the girl may not like what she see's, but I'm telling ya, no woman I've ever met appreciates wussyboys that can't make a decision.

Or do you want the best of both worlds?

Of course, who doesn't? :)

It's pretty simple. Men and women have different biological imperatives. Biologically speaking men are driven to spread their seed as far and wide as possible. It only takes the average man about 2 minutes to accomplish this given the opportunity. A woman's task takes MUCH longer to fulfill. 9 months minimum, 18+ years maximum, so she needs to be a little more selective. This is why a man that can be a man about where to go to dinner is better than a wussyboy... the MAN might be helpful for longer than 2 minutes.

Now, you may say that you're just trying to be nice, but there's a couple of problems with this. Nice because you like me and nice because you just wanna get laid are indistinguishable, so we need to look for other traits to see what you're really like. Second, guys always bitch about the guys that are dicks getting the girls. Here's another secret: a lot of girls like a bad boy. A bad boy doesn't have any trouble making decisions, he knows what he wants, and that's a turn on especially if he lets me know I'm one of those things.
 
I repeat, I can't offer much, because I don't know, - maybe he doesn't have money or something, and i'm afraid to make an ass of him. So for avoiding that kind of shit - it's be better when a guy makes a plan.