I remember also you giving some advices to drew band, shorter songs and again much more cohesion about their visual.
Actually he insulted the way I specifically looked - saying I was the odd one out or some bullshit like that, and then he threw in a bunch of completely subjective thoughts on our musical style, and pretended like they were solid criticisms that everyone would share.
Lets see something, they after all play post rock/metal so nobody is expecting song with 3 minutes with a standard verse/chorus/verse/chorus. Your advices are not bad, not at all but very biased from your musical preferences. I think you dont take at all the context of the things.
Emphasis mine, because I think it is pretty much key. Pretending that there is a set of rules or guidelines to follow to promote your work is silly. There is no fixed path anymore, and in fact I doubt there ever was. As far as the aesthetic of what you create goes, not everyone is going to dig it. Some people fucking LOVE long songs that morph and transition from one concept to another - I happen to be one of those people. To me, saying effectively "write shorter songs" is tantamount to compromising MY musical ideas and MY musical goals.
And it's stupid to do that. I know there is an audience out there for our stuff, I see it every single day.
It's always been darwinism, the strong survive and the weak fall away and die. You get assholes buying Facebook likes to make themselves seem more important. You get shysters out to make a buck, by fitting themselves into a predefined mould that appeals to a "demographic" or a "scene".
I have absolutely no fucking time for those people. I think they're weak, and pathetic. If they cannot stand on their own two feet, and let their work speak for themselves, then they can just go and suck an aids dick as far as I care.
Ultimately, I've never said anything like what I've said in this thread before, not to Sami and not to anyone on this forum. Because I know that my tastes are not the correct and holy and right way to see things. It's just one mans perspective amongst many.
But Sami's comment brushed me up the wrong way, and particularly considering that it isn't the first time he has done it.