attn: greg

and mindspell there's a difference between being like 'wow she's so cute!' and being like 'wow she's so much better than you, do something about that!'
 
minxnim said:
and mindspell there's a difference between being like 'wow she's so cute!' and being like 'wow she's so much better than you, do something about that!'
I know, I just wanted to make sure that's what you meant. And it was a good occasion to mention that I like women "despite my eating habits" ((C)Xfer, 2004)
 
maybe alex. but my examples are also bad. trust me. they're underhanded. i'd go so far as to say that i've had guys read my emails behind my back, spread rumors about me so other guys wouldn't like me, try to turn my female friends against me because they didn't think they were 'good for me', and secretly be mean to my male friends so they'd 'disappear'.
i had a boyfriend once that erased an email telling me about a friend's funeral in philly because he was STILL jealous of the guy even though he was dead, and didn't want me to go.
 
p.s.
conversation last time i was home:
me: luke put on your seat belt
luke: fuck no.
me: now.
luke: fucking NO.
me: GET OUT OF THE FUCKING CAR THEN!
 
I have experienced the Withholding sex part the worse I can imagine: 3 months. I still cannot figure out what went wrong or what I did. She didn't seem that pissed either.

Note that I was living with the girl at that point and sleeping every night in the same bed.
 
i mean i don't really care about the not getting laid part really as much as i think it's unbelievably shitty to use sex as a weapon. and it's not tolerated when guys do it and it should not be tolerated when women do it.
 
minxnim said:
maybe alex. but my examples are also bad. trust me. they're underhanded. i'd go so far as to say that i've had guys read my emails behind my back, spread rumors about me so other guys wouldn't like me, try to turn my female friends against me because they didn't think they were 'good for me', and secretly be mean to my male friends so they'd 'disappear'.
i had a boyfriend once that erased an email telling me about a friend's funeral in philly because he was STILL jealous of the guy even though he was dead, and didn't want me to go.
BTW you had boyfriends with problems, big jealousy problems. I have seen this in the past though, a friend had her boyfriend stop eating so that she not go back to her hometown for a week.
 
trust me, Greg, I'm really a puss. even my tattoos are not even remotely macho.

I think the thing that frustrates me most about many women is the oblique way they have of speaking; the real issue could be completely different than the words coming out of their mouths...so as a guy, I'm trying to address what they're saying and then finding out that's not really the core issue.
 
This might be in a completely different vein but I hate how girls can, at least in my experience, change their mind with the sudden ferocity of a cobra's strike and about things that aren't minor either. I'm talking a complete reversal of opinion in the mere passage of a day over something very serious in nature. Also, the lead ons and manipulations will forever mess me up when all I really want is an honest answer. Most likely because I'm way too damn trusting.
 
oh, i turn on people like a pit bull. but it's with good reason and it's when i'm fed up. i have a long fuse for being treated like shit but when it goes, it goes ugly. my dad is the same way.

also: that dude with the jealousy problem has been apparently cloned and spread across the planet because every girl i know has similar stories.

and by the way, my response to such behavior has and always will be:

"are you done?"
or
"you need to lose my number"
 
re: the last one, you need to remember that we established that you have some kind of superior mutant biology that doesn't require you to shower daily to stay clean, so your gauge of the stinkiness of feet is probably a bit skewed.