maybe alex. but my examples are also bad. trust me. they're underhanded. i'd go so far as to say that i've had guys read my emails behind my back, spread rumors about me so other guys wouldn't like me, try to turn my female friends against me because they didn't think they were 'good for me', and secretly be mean to my male friends so they'd 'disappear'.
i had a boyfriend once that erased an email telling me about a friend's funeral in philly because he was STILL jealous of the guy even though he was dead, and didn't want me to go.