as for looking I just love green or blue-green eyes or black, really dark eyes. hair color doesnt matter that much, I just dont like very blonde guys at all... all other colors are fine, black, red, brown... doesnt matter
I dont care much about body, I just dont like that muscle man style, thin or a little bit more, I dont care, both is oke
for character I also would agree that this "me me me" talkings are veeery boring, I like kreative people, romantic, a little bit crazy, loving nature, maybe not easy to handle (its boring if u always have someone who says yes to everything even he doesnt feel so), dont care much about smoking, just hate it when someone smokes in bed or after sex hehe...... there is so much more that makes it, but to long to tell, maybe also impossible to tell...
... the right mixture is the secret hehe