Dilema...

[Hexxan]

ok, so theres this girl in one of my classes in skool, and shes well smart, damn hot, and got a great personality. Basically everything i look for in some1. im pretty friendly with her now and we get along well.
She MAY like me, im not sure as i get so many crazy 'signs' from her its too hard to tell, like she would flirt with me, but then tell me that im out of her league... Now the thing i reckon thats putting her off of me is that im growing my hair, at the mo its only just past my ears and i plan to get it at least double in length. If i was to cut it then i MIGHT be able to chat her up and go out with her, but as all relationships go it would end and also i would have to start growing my hair from scatch again...
So basically im asking, is it worth cutting my hair in the hope that i might go out with her? or should i keep growing it and if she dont like it, hard cheese?

im only asking u guys cos im really bored atm and just wonderin about ur opinions, i dont think what u say will affect what iv decided to do, but it will be interesting....

*edit* i havnt voted... yet... *edit*

 

[phon1c]

I reckon it's either

a) She DOES want to go out with you

or

b) She doesn't, and she won't if you cut your hair anyway.

 

[Kittarin]

do you even have to ASK this question???


obvious answer:
if she doesn't like you just because of your hair, she's definitely not worth changing your looks for.

be who you want to be, and don't change just to please someone else.

 

[IcemanJ256]

exactly what Kittarin ssaid.

 

[LiB]

your too young to fuck, grow your hair

 

[Hexxan]

but those few months of sheer joy would probably beat any other experiance in my life, save an old ex and an opeth gig

 

[IanDork107]

Now, changing who you are to piss someone off is a different story

 

[Hexxan]

Originally posted by LiB
your too young to fuck, grow your hair

heh, when did i ever say i was gonna sex her up? i doubt she would let me and that wasnt part of the main plan, but if she did i would love it

 

[LiB]

Originally posted by Hexxan
heh, when did i ever say i was gonna sex her up? i doubt she would let me and that wasnt part of the main plan, but if she did i would love it

lol dont kid yourself, its all fun and games at that age, and sex is the holy grail of teenage relationships ive found.

 

[ControlledChaos]

what kittarin says

 

[NAD]

DON'T CHANGE YOURSELF FOR A GIRL, ESPECIALLY IF YOU HAVEN'T EVEN TALKED TO HER YET!!!

Besides, this might be the last age you can grow your hair out! I cut mine short at 16 and haven't been able to grow it back since because of having a damn job!

 

[Hexxan]

huh? i do talk to her, often. shes a good mate, but i can see a trend forming here.... hmm........

 

[NAD]

Originally posted by Hexxan
huh? i do talk to her, often. shes a good mate, but i can see a trend forming here.... hmm........

Oh. Sorry. I didn't read all the posts, I'm lazy.

Did she ask you to cut it? Besides, knowing women, if you cut it she'll say "ohhhh... I liked your hair... why did you cut it!?!?!" Fucking mercurial bitches...

 

[xenophobe]

NO!

READ THIS AGAIN:

Originally posted by Kittarin
do you even have to ASK this question???


obvious answer:
if she doesn't like you just because of your hair, she's definitely not worth changing your looks for.

be who you want to be, and don't change just to please someone else.

 

[LadyOfTheSnow]

Originally posted by Kittarin
do you even have to ASK this question???


obvious answer:
if she doesn't like you just because of your hair, she's definitely not worth changing your looks for.

be who you want to be, and don't change just to please someone else.

Kittarin's correct! Listen to this wise person!!!!