As a response t oall these talks about friendships breaking, I have a counter argument... story... thing... to tell
It was midsummer's eve and we were at a cottage with some friends, amongst them one of the best friends I have, a girl, to whom I actually had had feeling for but because I didn't want to spoil our friendship that had started pretty much when we were 2 year olds, we never had anything between us. So, there we were, both drunk, I was sitting next to her, and suddenly she wants to kiss me!! Well I was so wasted I didn't see anything wrong with it, so we made ut for about 10-15 minutes or something, but we didn't go past that (luckily).
The next morning she was like nothing had ever happened, so I let it be, because I myself didn't see that much damage done, it was just drunktard stupidness. So, a few days after this I asked her if sh eremembered anything, and she said no. I wandered if I should tell her a while and then decided she better know what we did. The response I got from her was the last thing I had expected, she was worried if I had been traumatized because of it!!
Well I told her I didn't think it was really a big deal or anything and we sorta just left it behind, and we're still the bestest friends and I could never imagine my life without her, she's just so... I... She's a bit like a sister to me, except that I don't yell and diminish and order her around like I do with my real sisters
And she's the person that got me into playing guitar too!!
And she's good as hell in it.