My Priorites: 1)Me 2)Me 3)Me 4)Everyone else. Looking out for number one, that seems to be your motto. You have absolutely no symptoms of the "Disease to Please"! It's not that you completely disregard others' feelings -- you just make sure that you come first. And if someone has to sacrifice, it's not gonna be you! Looking out for yourself is definitely important, and you do it extremely well. Speaking the truth and enjoying yourself to the fullest reveal a sense of self-confidence. But make sure that you draw a line between self-confidence and self-absorption. When you are too concerned with your own needs, you can come across as cocky or inconsiderate. Honesty is great if you can eliminate the unnecessary harsh words. And trying to make the most of every situation is admirable, so long as you're not stepping on others in the process. So, continue to take care of you -- but try to fit other people into your list of "things to think about."