No way. HIM is one of the greatest bands today. Listen to Funeral of Hearts, man. Seriously, if the part where he sings, "
She was the sun shining upon,
The tomb of your hopes and dreams so frail, He was the moon painting you, With its glow so vulnerable and pale," does nothing for you then I am completely shocked
. This part gives me chills.This, to me, is classic song writing and it usually doesn't get any better. Well, rather, many artists would kill to write magnificent melodies along those lines, I'm sure. The kind of songs that just stick with you.
Lets face it, it must be admitted...HIM kicks ass and there's a reason why they're getting popular. Finally, I can't argue with the mainstream. It is valid. These guys just rock. And you know what? Good for them! They deserve the fame and recognition. I mean fuck, I've been listening to this band like 24/7 lately it seems -- even when I go to sleep, on play and repeat. And there's nothing gay about this music at all. Though, it's subjective whether or not you feel the band's image is gay or not hehe. I don't pay attention to image, just the music. It pisses me off when people diss these guys without truly actually giving it a chance. I should know, I've been there. I was one of those ignorant fools, hehe. Greatest hits is a good place to start (I did.)
Also, I just CANNOT compare what is probably my favourite band ever - Katatonia - to HIM, which is slowly becoming one of my all-time fave bands. They are BOTH too damn good (in fact, there is this other band THE LOVELESS which fits nicely with these two as well - also one of the best bands I have heard!). HIM features the catchy, ENDLESS amount of killer tracks that stick with you just as Kata has. But, they do things quite differently. While there are SOME key, hidden similarities, the two bands essentially are quite different from one another. HIM is sad and honest, but maintaining a kind of positive attitude. Katatonia I find to be more "serious" and obviously heavier (at times.)
Oh god, great...

I'm going to write pages defending HIM now. Yikes, things sure have changed.
And I can't help it, but ALL these tracks MUST be heard;
- And Love Said No (in my top 10)
- Poison Girl
- Pretending (in my top 10)
- Wings of a Butterfly (in my top 10)
- Dark Light
- Sweet Pandemonium (in my top 10)
- Right Here In My Arms (in my top 10)
- Funeral of Hearts (in my top 10)
- Sacrament (in my top 10)
- In Joy and Sorrow
- Circle of Fear (in my top 10)
- Heartache Every Moment (in my top 10)
- Join Me (in my top 10)
- In Joy and Sorrow (
dammit, so close to be in my top 10)
- Beyond Redemption
- Killing Loneliness (aargh...fucking good one...)
- Vampire Heart
- Under a Rose
This list is pretty pointless, really...no one cares, I know. But, maybe someone will also take a look and investigate and discover that a band they long have thought sucked actually is quite the opposite, as I did.
Surely there MUST be more HIM listeners around here than just myself,
Cheers!