People will always struggle with the growl, no matter what. Even Mike didn;t like growling when he was younger. What really annoys me is when people don't even take the time to become interested. I stuck with Opeth for just a couple of days and like most of you guys, the growl has become just another instrument in the Opeth arsenal. None of my friends even give it a go. As soon as a growling part comes on, they turn it off or laugh or whatnot. Thats why I introduce most people to Opeth through Damnation, because they get used to the music first, then when they hear the growling, they can still hear the music they like, and it somehow moulds together. That's the theory anyway, and judging by how many of my mates like Opeth, it's not really working.