Dak
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Just like a woman to worry about what sort of emotions win arguments. (I think we need a version of this smiley with dealwithit glasses)
If I converted to SJWism and accepted a female lead relationship with a Black Jewish BBW domme who I found physically unattractive, would I go to heaven?
JH: We need to think about this on every level. Parents need to be encouraged to raise their kids with some independence and experiences that help them learn from setbacks. Kids need to learn how to address insults on their own. I would change the freshman reading list. If we really want students to learn how to get along with other people who hold diverse views, they should read Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People. And I would strongly discourage using first-year readings to focus on racism, sexism, and anticolonialism. A steady diet of such books draws students into the culture of victimhood and anger.
As I write this, my children are asleep in their room, Loretta Lynn is on the stereo, and my wife is out on a date with a man named Paulo. It’s her second date this week; her fourth this month so far. If it goes like the others, she’ll come home in the middle of the night, crawl into bed beside me, and tell me all about how she and Paulo had sex. I won’t explode with anger or seethe with resentment. I’ll tell her it’s a hot story and I’m glad she had fun. It’s hot because she’s excited, and I’m glad because I’m a feminist.
Yeah I read that one awhile ago. Funnay.
I wonder what the well-thought out argument is opposing this view. Appeals to almost all of my beliefs (the interview and the Coddling article) but I don't want to get to fanboy-ish about it.
Haven't gone through these yet Ein, but these may contain the answers.
https://reason.com/blog/2015/09/08/the-rise-of-the-culture-of-victimhood-ex
Includes a link to a scholarly article he wrote. Got to go through some hoops to download it, but it's free.
They don't need to read Butler to be exposed to victomology. It's in the air we breathe at this point.
What does this mean? Haidt specifically referred to curricula, saying that first-years shouldn't be exposed to texts on racism, gender, et al. Saying "it's in the air we breathe" suggests there's nothing that can be done by instructors to combat it, making Haidt's entire argument rather moot.
Well I would say it starts much earlier than in the university. I have complained about the same things, and I have heard that due to upbringing prior to college, it isn't right to rudely awaken the children as they pour into the university. But they are going to get it at some point. May as well be as they enter "adulthood" if it wasn't earlier.
I think the snuggle rooms Dak is referring to are the "no triggering" rooms where you play with legos and other insanely childish things
I would agree it starts prior to college as well. I simply take issue with Haidt's comment about assigned texts, since I have doubts as to whether these kinds of texts are really to blame for a culture of victimhood - or that assigning them to first-years actually fosters such a culture.
Many schools do utilize various kinds of stress-relief measures - BU has an animal petting day prior to final exams. But these aren't coddling measures.
As a CC transfer, and having done my freshman year in 02, and not living on campus, I can't speak from any personal experience about what newly minted freshman are exposed to, but given the number of "social justice" bulletins, it has to be a lot of that BS. Even teachers that are ostensibly against coddling, still push 50+% of SJW stuff, so the detraction is easily drowned out.
It's a problem is that new "adults" on a wide basis are so stressed by these things that if they don't pet an animal like a 4 year old, they might harm themselves or others. That's enabling - which can easily be called coddling.